OK, I openly admit that I have not been a huge fan of Rick Warren. A few years ago, I participated in a 40 Days of Purpose Bible Study, and at many times, I was underwhelmed. It wasn’t that I thought that things were outright wrong as much I just thought it was very surface-level stuff. That being said, one thing that does stick out in m memory is Warren’s assertion on the very first page of The Purpose Driven Life that “life isn’t about you”. Apparently, that assertion flies over some people’s heads.
When I see an article like this, complaining about the video here, it honestly saddens me. When I read this statement:
Can you imagine calling on this individual at 3am when your loved one is dying or seriously ill? Can you imagine Mr. T-shirt holding the hand of an elderly saint as she passes into eternity?
a few things come to mind. First, I wonder how often it is really necessary to call someone at 3am. I’m not saying it should never happen, but this makes it sound like a reoccurring event. Secondly, I wouldn’t really care what someone was wearing when they came to visit me. But, hey, that’s just me…
Now there’s nothing about either of those things that’s inherently bad, but in a large church is it really realistic to expect the lead pastor to perform these functions? To me, the thing that’s amazing is that these aren’t just expected, but they’re demanded. It’s the attitude that says the pastor is there is serve me, and I expect him to meet all of my expectations. It’s ironic that the piece is referring to Perry Noble as a “hireling”, because, in reality, the kind of pastor Ingrid is describing seems more like a hireling – a person hired by the church members to meet their needs.
Now, I don’t deny that a big part of being a pastor involves caring for people and being involved in their lives. But I will also say that as a church body, we are to minister to one another’s needs and there are many things that can be done by the average church member to help the pastor. Have the critics volunteered their time to visit the sick and help other members? Have they spent time and energy to be a blessing to their pastor? If not, then they really have no room to complain. Coming from a pastor’s family, perhaps I am more sensitive to these complaints, because I know that there are some people who will take and take but never give anything. And these people most of the time simply need to grow up. I think these are the type people the author of Hebrews had in mind when he wrote:
We have much to say about this, but it is hard to explain because you are slow to learn. In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness.
So perhaps, the fact that Warren’s book starts with the basic premise, “it’s not about me” is a good thing. It seems that some of us need reminded of that fact.
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