We know God loves, gets angry, even expresses jealousy… these are all anthropomorphic emotions attributed to our God and Father. But this post over at Slice of Laodicea makes me wonder – does our Father also experience embarrassment? If he does, it’s this kind of behavior in his name that must elicit that emotion.

Whatever our thoughts may be toward Ted Haggard… whatever one may think about his opinions expressed in the media or elsewhere. The rant by Ingrid Schlueter is beyond bad, it’s beyond wrong, it’s beyond an embarrassment to the Gospel she tries to defend – in short; this rant is no service to God. It is an embarrassment. Ingrid’s self-righteous rage is embarrassing in its nastiness, its unChristlike tenor, as well as her mixing of theology and politics.

When Ingrid opens a rant with “Ted Haggard is now speaking out against the “Christian Right”. (That’s gay code language for Bible-believing Christians.)” she immediately tips her hand, a hand that shows her lack of biblical discernment. The “Christian Right” is not tantamount to “Bible-believing Christians.” There is no doubt the Christian Right is made up of Bible-believing Christians, but to speak against, disagree with, and even distance oneself from a political organization is not to distance oneself from the Bible. Ingrid has done this before when she elevated an economic principle to that of biblical status.

But this is just Ingrid assuming the Gospel includes membership in a particular political party. She becomes a true embarrassment in the manner in which she berates a fallen brother in Christ… disagree with him if you like… but such hatred for another member of the Body of Christ is unconscionable. It’s an old cliché, and a politically incorrect analogy, but in Ingrid’s case it’s fitting- the Christian Army is the only army that shoots its own wounded… nice shot Ingrid.

It is not my intent to defend Haggard, nor his opinions as expressed in the Christian Post. That said, to publicly address a brother in Christ by telling him to “find a nice dark corner where you can explore your “complex sexuality” and your deviancy…” – calling him “a sociopath who must have attention, adulation and constant ego-stoking” – these are not the methods of Christ… I’d got so far as to say they grieve the Father.

I do agree with Ingrid Schlueter on one point. The sooner this kind of faux Christianity ends, the better for the cause of Truth” – so Ingrid, for the cause of truth and more so for the sake of the Kingdom… please stop.

[HT: Rick Frueh]

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1   merry    
February 11th, 2009 at 6:40 am

“The sooner this kind of faux Christianity ends, the better for the cause of Truth . . .”

I’ve actually been thinking a lot lately about “faux Christianity” (though I don’t word it exactly like that) and I’m slowly coming to the conclusion that there is a whole lot more “faux Christianity” out there than people even realize. There’s this in-group/out-group mentality (basically Us vs. Them) that is evident in many places . . . Us vs. Nonbelievers, Us vs. Sinners, and even, sadly, Us vs. Those Other Denominations. It’s the basic in-group/out-group phenomenon that instantly causes racism, causes people to think their “group” is superior to the “other group”, and causes general pain and division among human beings. Christians need to be breaking down some major barriers here. God has so much more compassion for people than we even realize. I think He wants so much for us to get over the mindset that we’re Clean and “Those Other People” are Dirty. It’s not going to kill us (spiritually) to interact with transvestites, criminals, sex offenders, and whoever people may view as the lowest of the low. It’s what Jesus did.

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

2   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 7:49 am

The heart of Christianity is redemption. It is what makes us Christian, and indeed it is what makes Christ God. When we cease to be redemptive, and as Merry noted when we cease to show unmerited love, we have become just members of another religion.

Jesus said we are to forgive 70 x 7 which even in its construct assumes that the person failed to live up to his end of the forgiveness at least 489 times, and yet Christ said “Forgive him”. The words on SoL continue to be unchristian and self righteous complete with a venum and acrimony that renders it void of even loving correction, much less prayerful grace.

As sad and disapponting as the Ted Haggard story was, it has been used of the Spirit as a test. Some do not even have to cast the first stone since they always have stones alreday in flight that can be redirected at any target that surfaces. Some showed forgiveness while others exhibited a judgmental glee that belies the Christ they say they proclaim.

We are left with this: Which Christ are we following? Is it the doctrinal Christ that has every systematic box checked with the coldness of an algebra test? Is it the platform Christ that we use as a launching point for our judgmental tirades that seem to please the self righteous masses? Is it the gay hating Christ that takes every opportunity to mock and deride them with entertaining and demeaning language that is filled with creative phrases that show linguistic talent without the Spirit of Christ?

Or are we called to follow the Christ to whom sinners were drawn? Why didn’t Jesus say to Peter after he had cursed and denied him to a little girl, “Peter, Peter, go away…”. Are we following a Christ who forgives you and me every day, every hour, and probably most times every moment?

The line has been crossed long agay and the language and judgment digs deeper and deeper into the abyss of self righteousness. This is apostacy! Not the normal understanding of apostacy which denies the deity of Christ, but this is the falling away from the true Christ and teaching others to do like wise. I am convinced that the deception from the evil one is not limited to parts of the emergent movement, or the liberal churches, or even the cults, this deception is brilliant and effective among the most ardent doctrinal students of the Word.

They have neglected the weightier matters of the Christ and have constructed a caricature that seems to have the approved doctrinal appearance by any standards, but inside are dead men’s bones. This is not the Christ and this is not Christianity. This is not some small fringe issue about the mellenium or women pastors or some other doctrinal dispute, this now has redefined the Person of Jesus Christ while still retaining the semblence of doctrinal orthodoxy.

This is apostate orthopraxy that not only acts outside the Spirit of Christ, it suggests that Christ is speaking through them. They have left Christ who is the faith, and that in my opinion is a subtle form of apostacy. It is entirely possible, and becoming more and more prevelant, to have all the necessary doctrinal accoutrements present and accounted for, and not have the Spirit of God in them.

And those who espouse such language and encourage people like Ingrid to continue are partakers of those evil deeds. But once a person is addicted to the exhilaration that comes from speaking from the judgment throne of God Himself, it is usually extremely difficult to see yourself as anything different, much less repent and begin again. Ask me, I know.

Pray that some who will hear Ted Haggard will find the forgiveness and mercy they are looking for in Christ.

3   Zan    
February 11th, 2009 at 9:53 am

Do you think adm’s beat themselves up as much as they beat others up? Can they distinguish between their sin-nature and their Godly worth? Or is it all just despicable to them? It is in this light that I am grateful God continues to show me the depth of my depravity, that I have seen some of the valley, so that I might delight even more in the heights that He, and only He, brings me up to.

4   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:02 am

Who among us has not had a dog that we loved, a dog that even became a part of the family? And when that dog chews up something, or makes a mistake on the carpet etc., what do we do? Do we toss him out of the family? Do we claim he isn’t ours? Do we tell all the neighbors what he did?

No, we chasten him for his behavior and not long after we cuddle him and pet him and love him, even if we are sure at some point he may duplicate the offense. That, my friends, is what we do with our dogs.

Why do we treat our Christian brothers and sisters worse than we treat our dogs?

5   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:09 am

Do you think adm’s beat themselves up as much as they beat others up?

I hope not.

6   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:10 am

Speaking of dogs, I was glad the poodle didn’t win the Westminster Dog Show last evening…

7   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:11 am

If my German Shepherd “Rudy” was there he would have won!

8   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:11 am

The thing that’s amazing to me isn’t necessarily the reaction of people like Ingrid – it’s actually pretty typical of some. I’ve seen it all my life. But what’s amazing is the blindness to the actual results of this type of thinking.

In the HBO documentary, the filmmaker asked Haggard why he didn’t seek help earlier, and his answer was basically he knew that because of the nature of his struggle, he would basically be thrown under the bus. Well, now that his sin is known, that’s basically what has happened.

Why would anyone repent of any sin in a church when this is how churches treat someone who was supposedly “one of their own”. It’s no surprise that people don’t feel comfortable entering a church building – they’ll just be condemned.

I’m not saying that leaders don’t need disciplined when they fall or that we should ignore sin, but it’s not wrath that leads people to repentance. True repentance is a response to scandalous grace. The Church by in large has forgotten the subversiveness of the cross.

9   Zan    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:20 am

Neil….I am SOOO with you on show thing. Rats with fur. ’nuff said!

Rick, we do the same with our children. (I can’t speak to the dog thing, cuz I DO hold it against them when they continue to mess in my house…just ask Chris! or I hold it against Chris…hmmmm) But your point is a very good one. I have been VERY guilty of the same type of judgment we are talking about, and it was because I didn’t have a true understanding of grace. I believed in punitive grace…grace that can be taken away if I don’t continue to do what God wants and controls me.

10   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:21 am

“The Church by in large has forgotten the subversiveness of the cross.”

Wow, what a statement. Is that yours, Phil, or did you hear it from someplace else? Can I use it for a post? An absolutely great thought!

Websters says this about subversiveness:

a systematic attempt to overthrow or undermine a government or political system by persons working secretly from within

Think about that definition as it applies to the church!

11   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:25 am

Wow, what a statement. Is that yours, Phil, or did you hear it from someplace else? Can I use it for a post? An absolutely great thought!

That’s a Phil Miller original…

Plagiarize all you want. :-)

12   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:25 am

The fact is, though poorly communicated, that Ted Haggard is a hypocrite who has no right to point fingers about how he has been treated by the religious right (or anybody else)

I am the same hypocrite, btw, though not publicly, so I have no right to be treated any way but in justice. Thats why I need God’s grace so desperately.

The thing that gets me is that this guy didn’t just crawl into a hole and hide. This commentary at the Christian Post and all over the news screams arrogance, pride, self-justification. I know how I respond to that in my own children when they are caught and in the wrong. I love them, but I try my level best to remove any sense that they deserve anything but the full weight of the law until they repent.

I know you want to attack Ingrid, but what about the balance? Why is this guy standing in judgement? I will argue that it is because He has not experienced God’s grace. He has been forgiven much, but has come and beat up someone else who owed less than he. He deserves scorn and ridicule if for nothing else than for his self-serving press junket he has been on.

13   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:29 am

All of us are hypocrites on some level, but to me the height of hypocrisy is one who touts the grace of God doctrinally but shows little to his fellow man.

14   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:33 am

He has been forgiven much, but has come and beat up someone else who owed less than he.

I don’t see how he’s beating anyone up. Actually I was surprised that he didn’t seem more bitter towards the people who have basically disowned him.

To me, this whole thing is an example of what happens when we put agendas ahead of people. I think Haggard himself realizes he was guilty of that before, so he’s taking steps to rectify it. Whether they’re all correct I don’t know.

The fact of the matter is that in our zeal to defend our positions, we have hurt people. Even if we’re right, we need to ask forgiveness for our attempts at steamrolling people.

15   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:33 am

PB,
Let me get this straight. Haggard makes a comment in an interview condemning the actions of a broad group of people without naming actual names and its because he hasn’t experienced the grace of God.

Ingrid makes an entire life out of condemning both specific people and groups of people and its because…. she has?

You weren’t kidding when you said you were a hypocrite.

As long as we’re on the subject of your hypocrisy when are you goign to get around to the practical application of your teaching on divorce? Remember, you wrote:

Christian marriage is a picture of Christ and the church. We as Pastors need to do everything in our power to make that picture looks good to the world.

When are you going to get around to applying that to people like Ingrid and Steve Camp who usurp the power of elders and yet are divorced?

Time to man up, boy. Its what Ingrid would want.

16   M.G.    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:36 am

PB,

If your standard for whether someone has experienced God’s grace is whether they “beat up someone else who owed less than he,” then I suspect that none of those you defend on a regular basis have ever experienced God’s grace.

Mr. Haggard offered a (not that bad) critique of the so-called “Religious Right.” Ms. Schlueter called Mr. Haggard a “sociopath.”

Do your own math, PB, and I hope you come to the right result.

P.S. When were Christians ever called to heap “scorn and ridicule” on others?

17   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:39 am

Speaking of “manning up”, you gotta love this bit of rhetoric from Ken Silva’s intro to this piece justifying Ingrid’s own hypocrisy when it comes to female elders and pastors:

Those who still have any critical reasoning skills left there in the postmodern pudding of American evanjellyfish will recognize the above passage refers to elders, including the teaching elders commonly called pastor. This is a position Scripture forbids a woman to hold, which Apprising Ministries has covered in Thoughts On Women Pastors.

However, there has never been such a prohibition against women speaking forth the Word of God. And especially in times like this when men simply won’t. I only mention this is passing because—yet again—among the few, if any, voices critical of former president of the National Association of Evangelicals Ted Haggard happens to be a woman.

I’m already on record as stating that my friend Ingrid Schlueter often acts in a way much more manly than many effete evangelical men bloggers busy blogging about nothing. Such is the case here with Ted Haggard and his continuing quest for attention.

Did Ken just call a pregnant woman “manly”? :roll:

18   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:41 am

MG

When were Christians ever called to heap “scorn and ridicule” on others?

Never. But that is not to say that we do not deserve it.

Dead Catcher:

Again, neither one is in my church. That is your own standard, stick to it.

19   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:43 am

Phil – on another thread I asked anyone to show me where Ingrid used Scripture at all in her article. Ken says she’s allowed to “speak forth the Word of God”. Notice that Ken changed the title to be somewhat more Biblical than Ingrid’s.

20   M.G.    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:45 am

The state of Christianity is pretty sick when the ability to launch a series of invectives, insults, and epithets behind the safety of a keyboard is taken to be some sign of “manliness.”

Ms. Schleuter has no business calling Ted Haggard a sociopath. Personality disorders are mental illnesses, not insults.

Why not just start calling people you disagree with “retards” and be done with it? Real manly, right?

21   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:50 am

At some point the reoccuring posts about the same guy becomes incessant nagging, which in my complimentarian view is the opposite of manly, if we are dicussing gender characteristics. :cool:

(just kidding Zan…I think) :)

22   Joe    http://joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 11:09 am

Dead Catcher:

Again, neither one is in my church. That is your own standard, stick to it.

And the hypocrisy goes to new levels. True, they’re not in your church but their writings might be. Heck, his music might be.

23   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:10 am

Ick.

24   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:12 am

So much for the “abundant life”…

Those posts only succeed in communicating that “The Gospel” really just amounts to a bourgeois obsession with genital management.

No thanks.

25   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:18 am

Jacques Ellul had something to say about subversiveness too.

26   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:20 am

RE: Stick to your own standard…

PB,

you first.

;)

27   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:29 am

Joe,

At least Marcus Borg’s writings are not in my church.

And there are no divorcee’s music in our church. Sandi Patti, Amy Grant, and on down the line….nope.

And I do not use Slice as a reference in my church. I exegete the scripture.

28   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:30 am

Oh, and Joe…

There are no cheaters in my church either.

29   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:32 am

Your church?

30   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:32 am

At least Marcus Borg’s writings are not in my church.

We’ve officially gone back to the play ground.

Here’s some stuff for you to exegete in relation to the sin you so love to defend, PB:

If someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual, restore them gently.

Matt. 18:19

19 “I also tell you this: If two of you agree here on earth concerning anything you ask, my Father in heaven will do it for you. 20 For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them.”

Rom 12:15

Mourn with those who mourn.

Col. 2:19

…..and they are not connected to Christ, the head of the body. For he holds the whole body together with its joints and ligaments, and it grows as God nourishes it.

Eph 4:16

He makes the whole body fit together perfectly. As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love.

Gal. 6:2

Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.

I Thess. 5:11

So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.

I Peter 4:8

Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins

I Peter 4:10

God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another.

31   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:32 am

Jerry,

Nope…not my church…our church fellowship. Sorry. I hate fuzzy language.

32   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:33 am

I invite you to think about the ministers of anger to the glory of themselves in light of these texts.

33   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:36 am

PB,

Actually…

according to Jesus your church does have cheaters in it.

You may even be one.

Remember? If you lust in your heart you’ve committed the act?

Unless, of course, your church is filled with a-sexual angelic beings…which I’m sure Ingrid would just love.

Just say’n…

34   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:38 am

#30 NC

I invite all of you to do so (practice the scripture you quoted) to the ADM’s that you use similar language towards as Ingrid did towards TH

35   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:38 am

And there are no divorcee’s music in our church. Sandi Patti, Amy Grant, and on down the line….nope.

I bet you sing some songs that are based on the Psalms of David. He was an adulterer and a murderer…

There are no cheaters in my church either.

That sounds like an indictment of your church more than anything, actually.

I think my church is full of cheaters, drunkards, gossips and various other scoundrels. God loves us anyways…

36   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:38 am

#33

I was refering to steroid users who wear pinstripes.

None of those in our fellowship.

37   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:40 am

Again, neither one is in my church. That is your own standard, stick to it.

Is Rob Bell in your church? Is Haggard? Is Rick Warren? Are all the black preachers you condemned as a group?

Looks like we know who wears the pants in the ADM family, and she’s more manly than you are, boy.

38   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:41 am

Um…

I’m tempted to just say, “you first”.

Instead I’ll ask a question:

PB, you actually think that the critiques of Ingrid’s behaviors here are the same thing as a personal attack on and name-calling of TH?

Really?
Really?

I feel an SNL skit coming on…

But, yeah…

you first.

39   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:41 am

I bet you sing some songs that are based on the Psalms of David. He was an adulterer and a murderer…

David repented. They are living a blatant lifestyle of rebellion. HUGE difference.

There are no cheaters in pinstripes. It was a shot at the Yankees, not a self righteous proclamation.

I hate fuzzy language.

40   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:44 am

David repented. They are living a blatant lifestyle of rebellion. HUGE difference.

As far as I know, Amy Grant and Sandi Patti have repented as well. Is there some sort of special penance required for CCM artists who fall into sin? If so, where is it described?

41   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:46 am

This is what’s lost on you, PB…

I don’t claim to live by that standard, but the brand of sin you love to defend comes from people who do.

I’m not so arrogant as to believe that I can stand up and say I have the right to proclaim that standard.

And I’m connected enough to reality to know that the imams, their sycophants and their drones surely don’t either.

You see, the “measure with which you measure” applies here…to you.

I’m asking you to sack up and actually do it, instead of being the sad, sad, sad person who actually would try to defend the subject of this OP.

Somethin’ to think about…

42   Joe    http://joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 11:47 am

Joe,

At least Marcus Borg’s writings are not in my church.

And there are no divorcee’s music in our church. Sandi Patti, Amy Grant, and on down the line….nope.

And I do not use Slice as a reference in my church. I exegete the scripture.

But what about the people in your church who might be reading Ingrid and think they can get divorced b/c of it? Don’t you want to protect them too? Aren’t you afraid that they might see her lifestyle and embrace it for themselves?

43   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:47 am

#38
Yep. I do.

And the name calling towards Ken, Steve Camp, etc.

The same as what happens on the Online Discernment Mafia.

So yeah, I think it is the same thing.

Dead Catcher:
Nope, none of those are. Thats why we should avoid their teachings like the plague, which is why I warn people in my church. I mean, we have a universalist, one who believes that we can ‘work with those’ who want to kill us to fulfill the humanistic great commission. And all the Black Preachers? You mean the ones who voted because of race and the economy rather than for life? I didn’t condemn them. A black preacher did. I just agreed with him.

44   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:48 am

“And there are no divorcee’s music in our church. Sandi Patti, Amy Grant, and on down the line….nope.”

Are they allowed to sing along with the songs to God? Are there divorcee’s in your congregation? Do you believe there are divorcee’s in God’s church? I would suggest that if you cleanse your church from all sinners you would have no church and ceratinly no pastor.

We’ve elevated music to a church office.

45   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:48 am

Is there some sort of special penance required for CCM artists who fall into sin?

apparently…

so much for being “anti-Catholic”.

46   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:50 am

What name calling of Ken, Camp, et al?

What articles call them names?

Where has the articles here not focused on their actual deeds and solely on their personalities, etc?

47   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:51 am

“Pastor”boy keeps running and dodging. He refuses to confront Ingrid and Steve Campy on their elder usurping ways, and he refuses to answer the question as to why Haggard hasn’t felt the grace of God because he condemns and yet all of his little ADM friends condemn far more regularly and viciously yet have felt the grace of God.

Also, he regularly criticizes people with less of a platform than Ingrid (who has a well publicized blog as well as a radio show) yet claims that Ingrid “isn’t in his church”. I guess its all a matter of perspective. If you agree with “Pastor”boy and live a lifestyle of sin its all good, if you disagree then its a problem, whether or not you live a lifestyle of sin.

48   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:53 am

I guess Steve Camp’s music would be verboten as well? No Ingrid singing special music either? I have a hard time believing your church is a MCA since the ones I have attended are much more gracious.

49   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:53 am

As far as I know, Amy Grant and Sandi Patti have repented as well. Is there some sort of special penance required for CCM artists who fall into sin? If so, where is it described?

Oh really?

You mean Sandi Patty is now living in a reconciled relationship with her ex husbands? She is no longer proclaiming from the rooftops it was God’s will that she had an affair with a married man and destroyed two families? She actually confessed that as sin and has adjusted her life to reflect that? Really?

You mean Amy Grant has reconciled with her ex, and is no longer flaunting her lifestyle choice to live in adultery with Vince Gill? When did that happen?

Repentance is more than just a word, it is a lifestyle. It is evident. It is admitting that you have sinned against God, and changing your mind AND your direction.

To my knowledge, Amy and Sandi have not done this. Therefore, while praying that they will, we do not use their music.

50   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:55 am

Every believer I know is an unrepentant sinner, since they all continue to sin. :cool:

51   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:55 am

“Pastor” boy,
Is Ingrid living in a reconciled relationship with her ex husband?

52   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:57 am

In fact, you even link to CRN.com which Ingrid posts on. Clearly you are recommending the writings of an unrepentant divorcee.

Pull the plank out of your eye, boy.

53   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:57 am

Oh really?

You mean Sandi Patty is now living in a reconciled relationship with her ex husbands? She is no longer proclaiming from the rooftops it was God’s will that she had an affair with a married man and destroyed two families? She actually confessed that as sin and has adjusted her life to reflect that? Really?

You mean Amy Grant has reconciled with her ex, and is no longer flaunting her lifestyle choice to live in adultery with Vince Gill? When did that happen?

Repentance is more than just a word, it is a lifestyle. It is evident. It is admitting that you have sinned against God, and changing your mind AND your direction.

To my knowledge, Amy and Sandi have not done this. Therefore, while praying that they will, we do not use their music.

This is ridiculous…

I believe both Grant and Patti have gotten remarried (as has Ingrid, from what I understand). I believe they have both expressed regret for their past sins, and beyond that, remarriage to their former spouses seems totally unrealistic.

Divorce and remarriage isn’t the unforgivable sin. It has more serious consequences, of course, and I believe that these people are living with them.

It’s evident to me that you have no understanding of grace. So much for faith alone

54   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:59 am

Are they allowed to sing along with the songs to God? Are there divorcee’s in your congregation? Do you believe there are divorcee’s in God’s church? I would suggest that if you cleanse your church from all sinners you would have no church and ceratinly no pastor.
We’ve elevated music to a church office.

I don’t know what you mean Rick…

Our church is full of sinners, wretches saved by Grace. Their Pastor ( me ) is the worst one of all.

There is a HUGE difference between those who admit the fact that they are unworthy of the grace of God, and live in a life of repentance and a drive for Holiness motivated by God and those like Patti, Grant, et.al. who say that they have not sinned in their choices and demonstrate it by living in it.

And my denomination is CMA. And we do demonstrate grace. But we do not forget that grace TRANSFORMS on into the image of Christ, it is not a licesense to sin.

55   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 12:01 pm

I believe both Grant and Patti have gotten remarried (as has Ingrid, from what I understand). I believe they have both expressed regret for their past sins, and beyond that, remarriage to their former spouses seems totally unrealistic.

Ah the fruits of the ADM. Recommending divorce in order to repent for divorce.

So much for PB’s high minded statements about pastors doing everything they can to encourage healthy marriages as it is a picture of Christ and the church.

56   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 12:04 pm

There is a HUGE difference between those who admit the fact that they are unworthy of the grace of God, and live in a life of repentance and a drive for Holiness motivated by God and those like Patti, Grant, et.al. who say that they have not sinned in their choices and demonstrate it by living in it.

Do you have any proof for what you’re saying, or are you continuing your standard practice of pulling stuff out of your butt? In every interview I have read with Amy Grant about this subject, she admits that she sinned. I can’t say I know as much as about Patti, but I would suspect it’s the same.

If you’re just going to spread lies about fellow Christians, please take your comments elsewhere.

57   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 12:07 pm

Being privy to some inside info I can say:

Actually, Sandi Patti’s divorce was not predicated on some random affair out of nowhere.

It’s to her credit that she has taken up a stance like that to make sure no one can accuse her of looking for an excuse…but the reality is that her first husband was a emotionally and psychologically abusive/controlling, etc.

It doesn’t excuse her move, but it gives a better understanding of what can happen when you drive your spouse away from you.

It was her then ex-husband who “outed” her in retaliation.

Bottom line, that situation was a mess and that woman went through hell and a restoration/accountability process in her local church–and those elders don’t have to give an answer to you or me about it.

And, good grief, it was years ago and you’re still carrying it like it just happened with no real knowledge of the situation.

58   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 12:09 pm

Her divorce was also to protect her children…not to satisfy some unbridled lust.

59   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 12:09 pm

In 1995, shock waves shook the CCM planet. CCM’s queen-of-clean, Sandi Patti, confessed to committing adultery since 1991 with singer Don Peslis. And he was not her first. Christianity Today reports,

“According to several independent sources who at different times were aware of Patty’s activities, she took part in two extramarital relationships, in both cases with married men.” (Christianity Today, Sept. 11, 1995 p. 72)
During much of Sandi Patti’s CCM career, she was committing adultery with married men! When Sandi Patti came out on stage, giving testimony and singing for the Lord, she was committing adultery! Sandi soon divorced her husband and married her adulterous companion Peslis, even though her husband was willing to forgive her and restore their marriage.
PsychoHeresy Awareness writes, “Patty’s rising popularity is indicative of the trashed condition of Christians who claim the name of Christ but will not follow the doctrines of the Bible. Marrying a partner in adultery does not make the relationship right. It constitutes a continual condition of disobedience to God. How does one repent of adultery while one continues in an ongoing relationship with a former accomplice in adultery?” (PsychoHeresy Awareness Letter, March-April 1998 pp.1,8).

By the way, Sandi is more popular than ever.

Proverbs 30:20 has Sandi’s name on it:

Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.
Proverbs 30:20

Is she repentant?

60   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 12:12 pm

Like I said, PB, do you have any real proof?

Hearsay is not proof. Especially when it’s from somewhere called “PsychoHeresy Awareness Letter”.

Hey, at least they got the “psycho” part right…

61   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 12:12 pm

Ah, the lifeblood of ADMs: dirty laundry.

Confronted on the lack of your own consistency? No problem, just post someone’s dirty laundry.

Come on Pastor Boy, go FOIA up Ingrid’s divorce and post that too!

62   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 12:27 pm

In conclusion, let me tell you of my opinion of Michael English and Sandy Patti. Both Michael English and Sandi Patty made headlines when they were found to have been involved in extra-marital affairs (Patti, on two occasions). Both English and Patty dropped out of the mainstream, though Michael English did make a secular album, following his returning of several Dove Awards when his affair with Marabeth Jordan, formerly of the Christian Group “First Call”, in which his songs (and a later interview) expressed anger at the way he felt he was treated by his fan base. However, sometime later, both Sandy Patti and Michael English made amends. They confessed their sins not only to God, but to their fans, asked for their fans’ forgiveness as well as from God, and have repented of their past, public sins. Both Michael English and Sandy Patti wrote books about their separate experiences of receiving her fans’ forgiveness, as well as from God, Patty’s titled Falling Forward… into His Arms of Grace (2007), and English’s titled The Prodigal Comes Home (2007). I, personally, continue to enjoy music by both. Why? These two have admitted their sin, sought forgiveness form God and from their fans, and have – despite their pasts – repented of their sins and scandals. This, too, is what Jesus does. Those who admit their sin, admit their failing, and come back to him he accepts with open arms. I further continue to listen to Sixpence None the Richer for the same reason that Leigh Nash did ask for forgiveness from her fan base in her blog.

Apparently, she has repented, and therefore I repent. I was wrong to accuse her. I have no idea how one could live in reconciliation to her husband once a divorce an remarriage has already happened. She has at least admitted she failed in her former marriage, and is under a church’s discipline and accountability.

I cannot throw stones.

But we also cannot say the same for Haggard. He is throwing stones to distract in my view from his sin.

63   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 12:53 pm

“But we also cannot say the same for Haggard. He is throwing stones to distract in my view from his sin.”

Two things. First, it’s possible that you are as wrong about Haggard as you were about the two singers.

Second, No one can judge the heart, and it is impossible to judge Haggard’s motives. To come on Larry King in front of millions of people and have a tape played right in front of you with a young man exposing your sins with him doesn’t seem like someone who is a “sociopath who must have attention, adulation and constant ego-stoking”.

To Haggard’s credit he did not have any preconditions for his appearance and was asked many embarrassing questions in front of his wife and children, all of which he has admitted. To set a repentance bar over which people must jump is self righteous legalism.

64   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 1:01 pm

No one setting a repentance bar, Rick.

But I have to ask: If one has repented, would he behave in such a way? Or would he be so filled with the Grace of God that he would extend that grace even to his critics (the wicked religious right)?

just wonderin’

And I could wonder the same the way some here treat Ingrid, Ken, and Camp….

65   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 1:09 pm

Jesus extended forgiveness and grace to the woman caught in adultery but told the Pharisees that their sin remained since they said, “We see”.

Condemnation of condemnation is a Biblical principle. The only segment of the community that Jesus did not show grace toward was the Pharisees who thought they spoke for God about everyone else’s sin but refused to see their own.

Show me in the New Testament where God instituted a ministry that lokks for and reports on other people’s sins.

66   Joe    http://joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 1:09 pm

#64
and some could wonder it about you and your friends the way certain people are treated….

67   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 1:20 pm

ke “Ted, Ted, go away”? Does that sound like “this human train wreck”? Does that sound like “a sociopath who must have attention, adulation and constant ego-stoking”? Does that sound like, “Why don’t you find a nice dark corner”?

John, you have been deceived into a Christianity that centers on sin and not redemption. I know, I used to be a leader in that movement.

68   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 1:25 pm

But I have to ask: If one has repented, would he behave in such a way? Or would he be so filled with the Grace of God that he would extend that grace even to his critics (the wicked religious right)?

just wonderin’

And I could wonder the same the way some here treat Ingrid, Ken, and Camp….

Are you sure you aren’t a brilliant satirist. How could your write this with any seriousness?

69   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 1:36 pm

This got erased

II Tim. 2:24-26 – And the servant of the Lord must not strive, but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil…

Does that sound like “Ted, Ted, go away”? Does that sound like “this human train wreck”? Does that sound like “a sociopath who must have attention, adulation and constant ego-stoking”? Does that sound like, “Why don’t you find a nice dark corner”?

John, you have been deceived into a Christianity that centers on sin and not redemption. I know, I used to be a leader in that movement.

70   John Hughes    
February 11th, 2009 at 2:38 pm

King David’s personal life was an absolute mess from start to finish. The “Man After God’s Own Heart” is the epitome of a poster child for what NOT to do regarding interpersonal and familial relationships. Although David repented of his sins he **still** married and stayed married to Bathsheba. Though he repented and was forgiven for these sins the temporal consequences for those sins followed him all his life and even though a murderer and adulterer (who remained in the adulterous marriage BTW) he is one of the most respected and revered saints of all time. We sing his songs to this day.

You know this type of thing was debated and answered long ago. Song lyrics and writings stand on their own independent of their author, just as the Gospel stands on it’s own independent of the history of the person who is delivering it. **All** song writers are sinners, with both public and hidden sins. To base the use of a song on the behavior of the author is pointless as one cannot possibly see their heart.

Instead, one can only rightly judge the lyrics based on their Scriptural veracity. Any other measure is ultimately unviable as it would be practically impossible to investigate the personal life of the thousands of hymn and sacred song writers. And then what would be the demarcation point of the amount or type of sin that tipped the scale against using the musical piece? A total effort in futility and ultimately completely subjective.

71   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 2:50 pm

I invite all of you to do so (practice the scripture you quoted) to the ADM’s that you use similar language towards as Ingrid did towards TH – PB

Please tell me you are not saying my post against Ingrid was the same as her’s against Haggard.

72   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 2:59 pm

But we also cannot say the same for Haggard. He is throwing stones to distract in my view from his sin. – PB

I think it best to not assign motives to people – since it is impossible to know.

In my post I said I was defending Haggard… and even if you are correct in your mind-reading, this still does not justify Ingrid’s behavior. One sin does not justify another.

73   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 3:01 pm

When I read Haggard’s comments against the Religious Right I saw a man pointing out his own mia culpa. He was once part of the Right, and when he committed the sin that is above all sins (according to the RR) he saw a) how viscous and ungodly they can be, and b) the danger of culturally tiered sins.

74   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 3:02 pm

If you move a rifle 1 degree it will miss the target by 30 feet each mile. The worse the world gets, your foundational view of Christianity and the Christ will determine how your spirituality is revealed. It will either be more redemptive in the midst of more sin, or it will be more judgmental.

Two shoe salesmen were sent to a country in Africa, after one week the first saleman got on a plane and came home because the natives didn’t even wear shoes. The other salesman called and tripled his order as he excitedly exclaimed, “No one here even owns any shoes!!”.

And so it is with humanity, you either see it as a redemptive gold mine and elaborate on Christ, or you see it as a lost cause and you eloborate on their sin. It all depends on how you see Jesus.

75   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 3:09 pm

Rick,

While agree with you comment #74, it’s even worse in this case since the attack was against a brother in Christ.

Her comments about about Haggard using “gay code” and her assumption he wants to “explore his deviancy” shows she assumes his categorical status is set.

Fortunately, it’s not her call.

76   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 3:12 pm

Demeaning dismissiveness is unbecoming a follower of Jesus Christ and represents a caricature of Christ and not the Redeemer Himself.

77   Eric Van Dyken    
February 11th, 2009 at 3:28 pm

In the interest of a little bit of balance on the topic of tone, etc., there are also admonitions in the Bible that speak strongly about such people as professing Christians engaging in sexual immorality. Take I Corinthians 5 for example. I’ll grant two things up front: Paul is speaking with apostolic authority (which none can claim today) and Paul is speaking in the context of a local congregation. I do not draw a parallel to the situation being discussed here, but I do believe it provides some support to the idea that using strong language (that some might regard as unloving) regarding unrepentant professing Christians can be appropriate. Paul says in various places in this chapter (specifically regarding Christian brothers engaged in sexual immorality):
1)”deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus” (the second part betrays an obvious love for the sinner’s soul)
2)”Therefore purge out the old leaven”
3)”But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner–not even to eat with such a person” (obviously sexual sins were not Paul’s only concern, though they are the given context in this chapter)
4)”Therefore “put away from yourselves the evil person.” ”
Mind you, I am not advocating for the particular approach being critiqued in this post, but rather noting that it is Biblical also for the visible church to disassociate itself from Mr. Haggard inasmuchas he continues his defense of his sexual immorality (and likewise all other nonrepentant professing Christians regardless of the sin). In all cases, our desire should be that repentance is the end result. I would dare say that despite her post, Ingrid would profess to desire that end. I believe that if she desires such, she would be wise to express the sentiment.

78   Paul C    http://www.themidnightcry.com
February 11th, 2009 at 3:29 pm

I too, when I read the post, thought it was extremely un-Christlike and dripping with anger. This is simply not the way to deal with any person. God only knows his motives. We venture onto thin ice when we try to draw conclusions as to one’s motives. As Jesus said, “With what measure we judge, we will be judged by the same measure.”

79   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 3:33 pm

“And I could wonder the same the way some here treat Ingrid, Ken, and Camp….”

No, the difference here is that ‘we’ interact and criticize their ideas and their ‘theology’. ‘They’ decide the eternal fates of people and mock, judge and verbally assault people who are their brothers and sisters in Christ. Once again, that is a huge difference that should be noted.

jerry

80   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 3:50 pm

I guess then, since you are only naming Ingrid, that pastorswho use abusive language and threaten people are okay, as long as they are seeker sensitive or emergent and really do not care about standing up for morality or the scripture.

just sayin’

81   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 4:00 pm

I guess then, since you are only naming Ingrid, that pastorswho use abusive language and threaten people are okay, as long as they are seeker sensitive or emergent and really do not care about standing up for morality or the scripture.

Yeah, that was so threatening…

It’s obviously a joke. PB, you’ll stop at nothing to prop up the failed “ministries” of the ADMs. Are your lips tired from kissing their butts as long as you have?

82   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 4:00 pm

80

Yikes!

I don’t even know who that guy is. But that’s totally wrong too.

Somehow, PB, it seems like you think that all the “emerging” types all get together/know each other (same for the “seeker sensitive” crowd)

People can’t be held responsible for not “critiquing” bad behavior that we don’t know about.

That being said, thanks for the link. That guy’s a real tool.

What his views on morality/scripture are, I know not…or even know how it is germaine to the actual issue-i.e “personal attacks.”

Then again…someone needs to show me how his sinful remarks characterize the whole his ministry…that’s where the bigger picture difference may be:

i.e. A guy who sinfully “goes off” or a group of people who make a whole ministry out of just “going off”.

It’s all wrong, but there is a difference.

83   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 4:01 pm

then again, was the guy just joking?

84   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 4:02 pm

and if he was, is that clear?

btw, where do people get these clips?

85   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 4:06 pm

btw, where do people get these clips?

Well, that parts simple. You have enough time to write blog posts about what you believe or do something proactive, or you have enough time to go looking for things that aren’t right. You might for instance go to the Catalyst conference just to mock it.

86   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 4:11 pm

Well, I have to assume that if the guy’s still a pastor after however many years that he hasn’t taken baseball bats to parishioners.

As a person who has spent a lot of times around pastors, I have to say, it’s not uncommon for certain members to inspire these revenge fantasies. Certainly there are people who take it upon themselves to make pastors’ lives a living hell.

The irony to me is that ADMs put pastors in a position where they are literally damned if they do and damned if they don’t. Struggling with a certain sin? Well don’t let us hear about it, you pervert. Confessing something? Well, let us just throw you under the bus.

That’s why when I had to give advice to students who felt a call into ministry, I always encouraged them get some other skill. Being beholden to church members for a salary sucks, and ultimately I think it has caused many pastors to lose their prophetic authority.

People who spend their times digging up these clips don’t want real pastors – they want men without backbones who will cater to their every whim. They want yes men to reaffirm their theology. They don’t anyone who dares challenge their little worldview.

87   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 4:12 pm

Actually, I wouldn’t go there or the Pastors conference to mock it. I did think of going to San Diego and preaching open air at the Pastors Conference to counteract all the garbage people will be listening to with the likes of McLaren and Claibourne there

88   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 4:14 pm

The guy was kidding, obviously. Over the top, of course, but many of us pastors have some of that frustration.

But the same Chris R. that presented that clip, unconditioanlly approves of Ingrid’s unchristian rants.

89   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 4:30 pm

Are you saying that Ingrid is not a Christian, or that her behavior in ranting is unchristian?

90   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 4:34 pm

Her rants are unchristian. I have no idea concerning her spiritual status, however she frequently expresses certainty about different pastor’s unsaved status.

I do not espouse her brand of Christianity.

91   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 4:41 pm

I guess then, since you are only naming Ingrid, that pastors who use abusive language and threaten people are okay, as long as they are seeker sensitive or emergent and really do not care about standing up for morality or the scripture. – Pastorboy

Dear Pastorboy,

There comes in any dispute a tipping point in which one party can no longer take the asinine, abusive, and non-sequitor rantings of the other. This will be the last time I respond to your insults. I have treated you with respect and tried to show you your errors while acknowledging the points you make… and what response do I get? This gem.

I named Ingrid because I was addressing one particular rant of her’s. Do you expect me to address every instance I come across? To assume that my silence about one offense when dealing with a different offense means agreement with the former is illogical and dangerously assumptive.

Your cavalier manner of assigning motives to others is dangerous, offensive, and arrogant.

Furthermore, I find it highly offensive that you think I would excuse those who do not care about the Scriptures based on their being seeker-sensitive or emergent, or that I have no care for standing up for morality.

92   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 5:02 pm

As long as the pastor is emergent I will excuse any offensive behavior. That’s just the way I am. :cool:

93   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 5:06 pm

Rick,

Maybe I should just take your dismissive attitude. Obviously trying to engage Pastorboy in any serious discussion is pointless.

I guess I’m a slow learner.

94   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 5:12 pm

Phil – most of the time when someone says something that is just absurd, I put up the force field of humor and sarcasm. I get aggravated just like you, but it is usually unproductive. John has seen you chastise emergent guys so his comment is ridiculous.

Anyone who cannot see the unchristian writings of Ingrid is blind, either purposely or subconsciously. It’s the “man convinced against his will” theory in action.

95   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 5:23 pm

Funny on the Gary Lamb post… It is really edited that after all of what Gary Lamb stated, he then states he was joking… but Chris R edited that part out…

Real “honest” of him…

Funny that one can pick and choose their truth…

iggy

96   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 5:26 pm

Check out “pastor” boys history in this thread. He won’t actually address any of the issues on the thread itself. Instead he dodges and airs dirty laundry of others, points the finger to try to obfuscate the issue.

This is your “truth” warrior, a pathetic boy who can’t seem to actually face the truth.

97   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 5:31 pm

BTW,

Unlike your typical ODM, I contacted Gary Lamb’s church to find out more about the sermon.

iggy

98   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 5:34 pm

Gary Lamb = joking

Ingrid = serious

99   Eric Van Dyken    
February 11th, 2009 at 5:37 pm

Pastors publically joking about bashing fellow Christians with a bat or punching them in the face = Christlike?

100   Paul C    http://www.themidnightcry.com
February 11th, 2009 at 5:39 pm

it’s an attempt to sound cool and to really relate with the flock (coming from the same pastor who advocates UFC fighting shouldn’t surprise us).

101   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 5:39 pm

Iggy,
Chris R lied, big surprise.

The only casualty in the truth war is truth.

102   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 5:39 pm

No Eric, as I said in #88 it was over the top. I’ll take over the top kidding rather than the “bath house deviants” type of invectives.

103   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 5:43 pm

Pastors publically joking about bashing fellow Christians with a bat or punching them in the face = Christlike?

I don’t know, seems like a rather lame excuse to gets one panties all up in a bunch. Maybe it crosses some sort of line, but I don’t know. People need to lighten up.

I kind of suspect Jesus had a sense of humor.

104   Eric Van Dyken    
February 11th, 2009 at 5:56 pm

Rick,

Over the top = not Christlike?

You certainly offer a different brand of grace to Gary Lamb than you do to Ingrid.

Phil,

Whether or not Jesus had a sense of humor is not the point. Since Jesus was fully human it is hard to imagine that he did not have a sense of humor. It is equally as hard to imagine that he joked publicly at the Sermon on the Mount about beating up fellow believers. While you may find it a “lame excuse to get one’s panties all up in a bunch”, others find it rather inappropriate and downright unChristlike. By defending or at least minimizing Gary Lamb’s actions you have simply proved PB’s point in bringing it up in the first place. Besides, there are certainly things on this site that equally qualify as a “lame excuse to get one’s panties all up in a bunch”, if you want to start applying that standard.

105   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 6:08 pm

Whether or not Jesus had a sense of humor is not the point. Since Jesus was fully human it is hard to imagine that he did not have a sense of humor. It is equally as hard to imagine that he joked publicly at the Sermon on the Mount about beating up fellow believers. While you may find it a “lame excuse to get one’s panties all up in a bunch”, others find it rather inappropriate and downright unChristlike. By defending or at least minimizing Gary Lamb’s actions you have simply proved PB’s point in bringing it up in the first place. Besides, there are certainly things on this site that equally qualify as a “lame excuse to get one’s panties all up in a bunch”, if you want to start applying that standard.

Well, if you want to be offended, be offended. I certainly can’t stop you. Personally, I didn’t find anything offensive in that segment, all things considered. Apparently it’s alright for people to attack pastors, but if pastors do anything to try and deflect criticism or even make light of it, they’re being “unChristlike”.

All I will say is that the same standard you judge others by will be that which is used to judge you. Frankly, I can’t live up to that sort of standard. I must confess that I probably regularly cross these arbitrary lines.

106   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 6:14 pm

So…

Lying = Christlike?

Really if you understand the people Gary is reaching… deep south folk big into wrestling.

My wife worked at a place that sold old wrestling tapes… Andre the Giant… even before Hulk Hogan… the oldies… many would call and order and did not even know how to spell their own name… somehow they had credit cards though….

So to judge these men who are really speaking to their congregation… and in this case state they are joking (maybe to make a point and contrast how they were and how Christ has changed them?) then to say their statement which is taken out of context and used dishonestly seems rather unchristlike to me.

iggy

107   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 6:16 pm

Eric and Paul,

So again… how is lying about Gary Lamb better than what Gary Lamb is stating?

How is it more Christlike to lie about someone to defend truth?

Explain that to me please.

108   Chris Rosebrough    http://www.extremetheology.com
February 11th, 2009 at 6:20 pm

Iggy,

Here is the sermon in its entirety.

http://www.piratechristianradio.com/fftf/AllInLiving.mp3

Lamb took it off the web but I kept a copy for just such an occasion. Could it have been because it was too embarrassing?

See if you can point us to the part in the sermon where he says he was joking.

109   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 6:22 pm

A guy who (maybe) sinfully “goes off”

OR

a group of people who sinfully (clearly) make whole ministries out of just “going off”.

Talk about persisting in sin…

Then again, that complaint apparently only applies to Ted Haggard.

yeeeesh.

110   chris    http://agendalesslove.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 6:22 pm

Pastors Conference to counteract all the garbage people will be listening to with the likes of McLaren and Claibourne there

Knowing Shane personally, and with your track record on factual research, I’m pretty confident that you have no idea what you are talking about. Yet again.

111   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 6:23 pm

108.

Lovely.

What a beautiful ministry of “gotcha”.

112   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 6:25 pm

What a sad sad thing it is to see people threatened so deeply by such things.

very, very, very sad.

113   Eric Van Dyken    
February 11th, 2009 at 6:25 pm

Phil,

You all have created as many arbitrary lines in defining Christlike or Christian behavior (which is what this post Neil was originally about), so if you want to excuse behavior based on that standard, why pile on Ingrid with the rest. I know the answer already, it’s called team politics, and you guys are every bit as capable of it as the people you rail against. And to be clear, I never said it was “alright for people to attack pastors” and I certainly did not say that if pastors “do anything to try and deflect criticism or even make light of it, they’re being “unChristlike””.

Iggy,

I never defended anyone lying, so your question makes assumptions that aren’t true.

114   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 6:53 pm

Eirc,

No you did sort of defend lyin by making the issue about Garly Lambs statements which are taken out of context and stating he has the real problem.

So, how can you judge himwith someone who has lied about him… how do you justify that?

Again, justifying a lie so that you can agree with it seems to validate the lie.

iggy

115   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 7:00 pm

I listened to the message and the part where he talks about his former church was obviously hyperbole meant to convey action rather than lethargy. I could not personally go to that church, but the message was designed to get people out of the pew and into service for Christ.

As I said, his example of the baseball bat was over the top but he was not serious, kinda like “pluck out thine eye” type of hyperbole.

116   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 7:11 pm

You all have created as many arbitrary lines in defining Christlike or Christian behavior (which is what this post Neil was originally about), so if you want to excuse behavior based on that standard, why pile on Ingrid with the rest.

Sigh…

It’s like talking to a wall. No one is “piling on” Ingrid. If anything, we’re attempting to stop her from attacking others. It’s simply amazing the lengths that people go to excuse an obvious and blatant attack on another Christian – and yes, in my eyes, Haggard is still a Christian.

By the way, I had never even heard of Gary Lamb prior to seeing that clip, so to suggest he’s on “my team” is news to me. I am against random idiots on the internet carrying out with hunts against pastors they have no relationship with though.

117   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 7:20 pm

In Ingrid’s current post about clown churches she laments the sermon series’s that use current things. How does she find churches that preach sermon series using for instance the “Gecko”? She then gives us a glimpse into the mechanics of her “ministry”.

“A simple search on Geico Gecko and the word sermon will show that the lizard is a popular theme for sermons and devotional material.”

Who would have thought that Jesus created Google just for these end times? Welcome to “Search Engine Discernment”!

118   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 7:23 pm

Man… I just listened to this sermon in context and it is a great sermon… And it is obvious he is joking about doing the violent things…

Now… this is the same guy that does not put up with guys who beat their wives… so I am sure he is not an advocate for violence…

I think the main point is being missed… that we should not fear and step out and do something than play church.

Again… listen to the whole sermon… and you will get that this is the point…

Good grief… there is nothing wrong with someone writing a book that declares a Truth War… but there is something wrong with someone that takes a stand and boldly tells people to do the works of God…

There is a major disconnect!

And here Chris R wants this man’s minstry to go under instead of seeing the point of the sermon.

So we should attack gays and tell them to “go away” from our churches… yep, keep the sinners out.

Why spread lies about someone and distort what they are saying? Oh to protect this fragile truth and god they serve…

how sad.

iggy

119   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 7:35 pm

So again, Eric and Paul, why do you see it right to attack Gary Lamb and agree with a misrepresentation of him?

How is that more Christlike to you?

I found it interesting that the motivation he had was out of the regret that he did not do anything when he left that satanic church.

Also, balance this with the heroes of the faith who… murdered others… as in Calvin.

Martin Luther said of the Peasant Revolt of 1525

“They should be knocked to pieces, strangled and stabbed, secretly and openly, by everybody who can do it, just as one must kill a mad dog!”

So how does one justify the actual violence and violent words of the Great Reformers… like Chris R’s own Luther… and then condemn others for hyperbole?

Common… please explain this to me…

iggy

120   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 7:39 pm

BTW, the Peasant Revolt of 1525 was inspired by Martin Luther’s words… then when he spoke against the peasants, 10,000 were killed.

iggy

121   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 7:43 pm

Actually there is also a direct link to Nazism and Martin Luther… many of the Nazis quoted Luther.

So why would someone who is a Lutheran hold Luther so high and then attack someone like Gary Lamb?

122   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 7:58 pm

Interesting how the point Gary Lamb was making has been entirely lost. He was speaking of defending his marriage.

We’ve already seen what little value the ADMs put on marriage, we shouldn’t be surprised that ADMs attack anyone who does.

123   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 8:00 pm

Chris R,
Not long ago you savaged a youth minister at Saddle Back for not teaching strongly enough against stealing.

Did you get Lamb’s permission to post his work? Or are you committing theft?

Do as I say not as I do, huh?

124   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:05 pm

91
Neil, I was not addressing you, I was addressing the commenters.

However, I find it strange that there seems to be a fair amount of outrage against Ingrid, Ken, LR, campie, and others while circus church goat herders seem to get a pass by and large

And, after all, Haggard was a mega church seeker sensitive pastor.

coincidence?

125   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:07 pm

I am not sure, but I am 57 years old and limited in my travel. But in my younger days I cannot imagine myself searching the internet in order to listen to sermons I don’t like and finding dirt about other pastors. As a matter of fact, we didn’t have the internet back then, how in the world did we ever discern anything??

126   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 8:07 pm

However, I find it strange that there seems to be a fair amount of outrage against Driscoll, Bell, and others while ADM goat herders seem to get a pass by and large

Fixed it.

127   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:10 pm

Dead Catcher:

Fixed what?

128   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 8:11 pm

Lamb took it off the web but I kept a copy for just such an occasion.

That sounds just like I Peter 4:8 and I am sure that is something both Jesus and the Apostles would have done. I mean, hey the guy took it down, but you saved a copy. Never mind the fact that maybe he took them down because he thought it was best. Maybe he does think that he shouldn’t have done that but hey he hasn’t gotten the ADM/ODM approved repentance checklist done yet.

Way to look like Satan.

129   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 8:15 pm

Guess we know who’s reading before responding and who isn’t.

130   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 8:21 pm

8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

I Peter 4:8

I guess it should read:

Keep a copy of your brother’s sin that way you’ll always have it for just such an occasion so you can bash him over the head with it.

131   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:23 pm

I am beginning a new blog site entitled:

The Sin Place

I encourage people to post any and all sins of everyone. There will be prizes awarded to the person who finds the most sins cumulatively, and the person who exposes the most sins of one person. Categories will also be used for cash prizes:

Adultery = $25.00
Drunkenness – $20.00
Drugs = $15.00
General sins = $5.00

And exposing gay sins is the Grand Prize.
$100.00

Inappropriate sermon material will be voted upon with the winner receiving a plaque that reads:

“To (your name), who has humbly listened to, filtered, and exposed the most offensive sermon material. Your demeaning language and effervescent judgmentalism has been an inspiration to the body of Christ. Next year – upward and onward!!”

Each month the discerner of the month will get his own parking space at our headquarters. Just remember our motto:

Sin sharpens sin!

132   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:29 pm

Sounds great, Rick.

Can I post my past ones and win, or do we need to be current?

Does it have to be OPS? (Other people’s sins?)

133   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:30 pm

“Does it have to be OPS? (Other people’s sins?)”

Yes, I don’t want to use up all my blog space with all your sins, John!

134   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 8:32 pm

Too late Rick, that site exists already.

Just check out sliceoflaodicea.com, extremetheology.com, christianresearchnetwork.com, and thedowngrade2007.blogspot.com.

135   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:35 pm

#134

I can speak for one of those sites, we don’t pay money.

136   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 8:35 pm

fightingforthefaith.com, defendingcontending.com, apprising.com, truthwarcentral.com, and the list goes

I hear some guy named Ken Silva actually has a list of these sites on one of his blogs, but as of now that is unconfirmed.

137   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:38 pm

Here are some other awards:

The Miley Cyrus Teenager Destruction Award
The Painted Girls of Sodom Award
The Sodomite Bath House Award
The Ravi Zacharius Apostate Memorial
The Rick Warren Antichrist Trophy

And the highest award is the:

Your Sins are Much Worse Than Mine

138   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 8:39 pm

Doesn’t the little leaven site have some of these awards already? Especially, the last one?

139   Chris Rosebrough    http://www.extremetheology.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:48 pm

Bo,

Every heard of Fair Use?

140   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 8:50 pm

And this from the current post at SoL:

“Truly, the Lord has given today’s fake churches over to a form of Nebuchadnezzar-style insanity. These people are on all fours, eating grass.”

Another award!!

141   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 9:23 pm

Every heard of Fair Use?

Yeah, and “I kept an entire copy of the work so I could continue excoriating him if he took it down” doesn’t qualify.

142   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 9:27 pm

Funny how Chris R will not respond that it is fine to attack Gary Lamb who is using hyperbole while the person that founded the denomination he is part of condoned and expressed that it was a good thing that 10,000 peasants were murdered.

Again though it seems that Chris R sees the dishonest misrepresentation of another in the name of protecting truth is also good.

Sometimes I am soooo glad to be emergent! I don’t have to seek out ways to twist Truth to my own benefit I can rest in it and trust truth to protect me.

iggy

143   Chris Rosebrough    http://www.extremetheology.com
February 11th, 2009 at 9:32 pm

Bo,

Lamb embarrasses himself I don’t need to help him with that.

The reason I kept the entire sermon was so that when someone like Iggy says something IDIOTIC like “Lamb was just joking” and “Chris was just engaging in selective editing”… I could then defend myself against FALSE and IDIOTIC claims.

144   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 9:34 pm

The reason I kept the entire sermon was so that when someone like Iggy says something IDIOTIC like “Lamb was just joking” and “Chris was just engaging in selective editing”… I could then defend myself against FALSE and IDIOTIC claims.

Again that doesn’t fall under fair use claims.

It makes you a thief as well as a liar.

145   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 9:38 pm

Also, to demonstrate how ridiculous you are as a discerner, do you believe that Lamb literally believes that devil is a woman who is married and was a member of his church in Iowa?

Because that statement immediately preceded the statements you pulled out.

146   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 9:42 pm

Sometimes I am soooo glad to be emergent! I don’t have to seek out ways to twist Truth to my own benefit I can rest in it and trust truth to protect me.

Thats because emergents don’t believe in objective truth, it is just subjective truth, what they feel at the time, and indeed what is true for them.

I thought Bo Diaz was a dead catcher, not a ignorant lawyer. Your interpretation of the Fair Use law is irrelevant, Bo. And it is incorrect.

147   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 9:43 pm

Chris R,

No it showed what I stated was true… you edited out a small section of a sermon and then took it out of the context of the whole sermon… when in context it is obvious it was a joke… but due to how you edited it it sounds much worse than it was.

Oh and I thank you for proving the point brilliantly for me.

So instead of calling me names, which seems so childish… why do you not address the point i have brought up? Why instead of addressing my points, do you resort to name calling. I guess you have no substantive rebuttal?

You lift up a man who used course language, incited a rebellion with his words and then called for and condoned the murder of 10,ooo peasants… and said it was a good thing! Then a man exhorts his congregation to do more than sit in their pews and do something with their faith… and makes a joke… you attack him with such venom.

There is a huge disconnect there…

iggy

148   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 9:45 pm

#147

Are you saying his sermon was a joke?

Sounds like most other seeker sensitive sermons.

149   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 9:45 pm

Really, what Chris R is doing is the same as if Gary had done the things he stated. Chris R is systematically trying to destroy Gary, his church, ministry and family. And so doing so condones the destruction of churches that preach that others should go out and serve Jesus.

In a way, Chris R’s words and how he is using them are more destructive than a “joke”…

iggy

150   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 9:50 pm

PB,

The sermon was excellent and his point on how King David did not let fear stop him… and how he depended on God to face his fears was something that need be taught in more churches… the part about the beating of the couple who were out to harm Gary and his family was a joke…

I hope you do not see exhorting your congregation to do more than sitting in their pews as a joke?

If you do that explains a lot about you….

But knowing how you cannot understand just basic things you read I guess you might also have the same cognitive impairment in your hearing.

151   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 9:51 pm

Sounds like most other seeker sensitive sermons.

I guess also you are against your congregation going out and doing the works of Christ and would instead desire them to sit in their pews and just listen to you?

152   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 9:54 pm

Are you saying his sermon was a joke?

No, I’m saying that the parts that are obviously jokes are jokes. He doesn’t obviously believe that satan was a married woman who was a member of his church in Iowa, just as he wasn’t actually regretful of taking a ball bat to Satan’s head. It was all hyperbole in the service of making a point.

At least its obvious to non-ADMs.

Sounds like most other seeker sensitive sermons.

You are the most ignorant person I’ve ever seen. And this is the internet, there are a lot of stupid and ignorant people out there.

You don’t know what an emergent is, you don’t know what seeker sensitive is, and you have no ability to discern anything.

153   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:07 pm

Dead Catcher:

I discern that you are a gutless seeker emergent syncophant who hides behind the name of a dead catcher so he does not have to answer for any completely ignorant accusations that he drops.

For all of my faults, I am not afraid to back up what I believe. You hide behind the name of a dead catcher. You are like a kid who hides behind his moms skirt.

154   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 10:08 pm

PB,

You are like the guy who wears his mommas skirts… and then attacks others for doing so.

iggy

155   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:14 pm

Well, iggy, that is a lie.

Another reason I cant wait to see you in Billings this summer. I know I can say what I mean without hiding behind a computer. Lets see what you are like when you don’t have distance and electronics to hide behind. I hope to see ya at your church, buddy. We can have a real discussion like two brothers with no misunderstandings. See ya soon.

I cant say the same for Dead Catcher. Gutless. No character.

156   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:19 pm

“Pastor” boy,
You continue to demonstrate your ignorance.

“Seeker emergent”. What a ridiculous joke. You demonstrate with every post that only the last half of your name is true.

You have no idea what those you criticize believe.
You have no idea what the church has historically believed.
You have no idea what the scriptures say.
You have no substance to any of your posts, demonstrated by your frequent attacks of the person.

You are unfit to lead a church in any capacity.

157   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 10:20 pm

Bo,

I agree with you… PB has no clue what emergent/emerging is… let alone what seeker friendly is…

In fact John used to state that his church was purposely friendly to non believers… he has removed that from his current church website… but I read from the original site I had to laugh as it read like a statement from any PD/SD church I have been part of or seen.

Really the hypocrisy runs very deep in John’s veins.

iggy

158   Chris Rosebrough    http://www.extremetheology.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:20 pm

Iggy,

Why am I not surprised that you are defending Lamb’s indefensible statements? I don’t care how much lipstick you put on that pig you’ll never convince me that it was a joke or hyperbole.

BTW, did you catch Lamb’s letter to people who stole the church’s trailer? Here is some of the most loving pastorly poetry that you will ever lay eyes on. Written through the love of Christ by “Pastor” Gary Lamb:

I want you to know that I think you are scum bags. I think you are lowlife degenerates who need a good butt kicking. Matter of fact I feel so strongly about the fact that you need a good butt kicking that I am volunteering to do it. I hope you believe in God because you should get on your knees and cry out to Him like never before because if we find you, I can promise we will kick the crap out of you. It won’t be pretty, it won’t be over quickly, and it will be very painful…. We are probably the only church you have ever heard of that will honestly break your legs once you are found.

You can read the rest of this mercy filled Christ exalting epistle at http://www.garylamb.org/2008/07/03/trailer-stolen/

Go ahead Iggy and tell us all how its was just a joke and hyperbole and that I am the sick one who needs help and how Pastor Lamb is an innocent victim of a mean ODM smear campaign.

Isaiah 6:9-10

159   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:20 pm

When a liar says someone has no character, they’re lying. Especially one with such piss-poor discernment.

160   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 10:22 pm

PB,

You will be the one in your momma’s skirt then?

I will be looking for you. But really I still will not sit with you as I do not care to hang with someone of your character or lack of it.

iggy

161   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 10:25 pm

Yeah… John has said that he is coming to Billings for over a year and yet has not… so I doubt he will. In fact I think he just mouths those words to make it look he is the bigger man… But with his track record I really doubt he will ever follow through.

162   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:37 pm

Figures.

When confronted with the truth of what was said there’s not an actual response on the issue. Only misdirection.

163   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 11th, 2009 at 10:43 pm

Chris – I could never be a member of Lamb’s church, however the bat reference was hyperbole in the context of “regrets”. He was making a point with an exageration. It was over the top which seems his style, but he wasn’t actually endorsing commiting a felony.

His message was making a good point about regrets of omission, but his style and language would be a distraction for me.

164   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:49 pm

Well, if that IS really what Mr. Lamb wrote…then he’s being a really big tool.

Then again, I’ve never heard of the guy until now…so so much for the “emergent subjectivist conspiracy”.

Actually, as a person who loves that conversation and has many friends who participate in it, I’ve yet to meet someone who doesn’t believe there is truth or acquiesces to a “relativistic” stance on things.

Then again, if all I did was drink from the toilet of ADM’s and other self-appointed gatekeepers who feel threatened by other people’s overshadowing book sales then I might have that POV.

just say’n…

Despite the idiocy of Mr. Lamb, it’s still nice to know that we can still count Mr. R as among those who see themselves as the new magisterium.

How very Popish of them all.

165   nc    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:52 pm

I really love the sanctimonious passive-agression in leaving a bible verse reference at the end of a comment.

How thoughtful to make sure it’s live linked.

166   M.G.    
February 11th, 2009 at 10:55 pm

NC,

In the ODM glossary, “subjectivism” just means “disagrees with me.”

PB,

I hold two propositions to be true and I think they will blow your mind.

1.) ODMs are right. Much of evangelicalism today is silly, self-centered, self-help pop psychology.

2.) Ingrid Schleuter needs serious help. Christians should never call sinners “monsters” or “sociopaths.”

On a personal note: A friend of mine suffered from a personality disorder. She had been molested by her brother at a young age and her life was never the same again. So when Christians like Ingrid lob verbal hand grenades and make light of real mental illnesses, it pisses me off.

So what camp does that put me in, Pastorboy?

167   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:06 pm

Actually Gary for what I know of him, is not emergent at all… he is SBC and is a bit controversial… but really to say his teaching was bad as implied by the “seeker” comment… is rather ignorant.

Now, did he go over the top? Maybe to the outsiders of his church, but maybe not to those who hear him every Sunday and know his heart.

For someone to claim they know his heart and then accuse him of promoting violence is arrogant. I have publicly stated I would defend my family but God has changed me from a man of violence to a man of peace. (Regardless to the rumors some spread about me)

So to call him “seeker” or “emergent” really shows that person to not know much about either of those.

As far as the trailer statement… it was stolen from a young church plant… it was a major blow and hardship… and I guarantee that if someone broke into PB or Chris R’s church “words” would be said…

Also, remember just a few days ago a comment by PB?

It went something like this…

“If I say Osama Ben Laden walking on the road, I would swerve to hit him and kill him without a second thought.”

Really a great thing to say coming from a “pastor”…

Then he sits in judgement of Gary Lamb over his statements… How consistent of PB…

“Do as I demand, not as I do” ~ The motto of the ODM

168   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 11th, 2009 at 11:06 pm

Go ahead Iggy and tell us all how its was just a joke and hyperbole and that I am the sick one who needs help and how Pastor Lamb is an innocent victim of a mean ODM smear campaign.

Well, you are smearing him, are you not? And what right do you have to that, exactly? Yes, his post is borne out of anger, and I can find things wrong with it, but I don’t know the man. You don’t either. You simply engage in drive-by attacks of your brothers and sisters. You are not exhibiting anything in the way of mercy or grace, and frankly, I am glad I’m not in your shoes. I hope you live up to your standards of perfection, and I hope that you have never said or written anything in anger that you later regretted.

You can keep your sick and twisted theology, thank you very much.

169   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 11th, 2009 at 11:07 pm

You are like a kid who hides behind his moms skirt.

Is there a Mrs. Diaz to write a letter defending you Bo? I’ll publish it on my blog. Haha. That’d be funny.
John,
There is an off chance that there is more than one Bo Diaz in the world, no?

170   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:09 pm

Still waiting for Chris R to justify attending a denomination named after a man who condoned the violent death of 10,000 peasants and yet sees fit to attack Gary Lamb over a joke…

and I bet I will wait a long time…

171   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:14 pm

Chris R…

You are a sick one… again… I guess you never spoke in anger? If you never have never the great! But if you have then you have no right to cast a stone…

But from what I see of you and your actions… the bible is just another tool to use against others instead of reading it to see yourself and how you are and have Jesus change you.

So feel free to cast that stone if you never once spoke out in anger or have never written anything in anger.

iggy

172   Bo Diaz    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:18 pm

There is an off chance that there is more than one Bo Diaz in the world, no?

Heh.

Do you know how many Bo Diazes there are in Venezuala? He’s a legend there. Well, technically its Baudilio, but you know how white Americans butcher names.

Got it now. If you’re an ADM you’re free to run over the enemies of your country, but if you’re not an ADM then hyperbole about violence is a condemnable to hell offense.

I’m still waiting to hear from ADMs. Are any of you willing to condemn Lamb for believing that Satan is a married woman in Iowa?

173   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:20 pm

Bo,

I more surprised no one has come to the defense of the organ and piano!

174   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:21 pm

BTW Don’t most ODM/ADM use the passage of Jesus clearing the temple as proof anger is godly at times? Why if this man and woman… and church were “satanic” would it not be right to be righteously angry?

Again… one standard for the ODM/ADM and one for everyone else…

iggy

175   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:22 pm

Oh and also come to the defense of the PEWS!

176   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 11th, 2009 at 11:28 pm

I mean… think about this… the merchants were stealing from God at the temple… making profit and making it harder for people to come to God… Jesus took a whip and drove them out and over turned the tables…

Someone steals the trailer with the lights and sound system in it and Gary lets loose some strong words of anger against those that stole from his church which means these thieves stole from God…

And then the ODM gets more bent over the words of anger than the theft from God’s people. So much that they attack the victim…

iggy

177   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:38 pm

In Ingrid’s current post about clown churches she laments the sermon series’s that use current things. – Rick

C’mon Rick, I have to agree with her on this one… a sermon should never contain a reference to anything people may connect with is their daily lives. When Jesus spoke in parables he did not use… uh… never mind.

178   Neil    
February 11th, 2009 at 11:42 pm

However, I find it strange that there seems to be a fair amount of outrage against Ingrid, Ken, LR, campie, and others while circus church goat herders seem to get a pass by and large

This is because we do not decide who are sheep and who are goats – it’s not our job.

(nor yours for that matter)

179   M.G.    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:00 am

Do you suppose it’s significant that the more “derogatory” terms for those without Christ are used in contexts where God is judging mankind once and for all? Whether it’s chaff or goats, God uses these terms to express some eternal judgment.

Before then, however, Christ used metaphors like lost coins, lost sheep, and prodigal sons? Metaphors of lost value and lost love?

Considering that God has yet to render a final judgment of man, it strikes me as an abuse of Scripture to invent an extra biblical metaphor just to denigrate those without Christ. If Christ is looking for lost sheep, should we not do the same?

The ODMs really hate Scripture. I learn that everyday.

180   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:30 am

Why am I not surprised that you are defending Lamb’s indefensible statements? I don’t care how much lipstick you put on that pig you’ll never convince me that it was a joke or hyperbole. – Chris R.

If this is true, it’s scary… scary that you cannot discern a rhetorical device.

[after listening to the sermon in question (I had not heard of Lamb before this diversion)]

181   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:32 am

M.G.,

That is a very keen observation.

Though in the case of Pastorboy using the goat metaphor, he’s assigning the eternal state of those who very well may be in Christ.

182   john b    
February 12th, 2009 at 1:36 am

Pastorboy Says:

#147

Are you saying his sermon was a joke?

Sounds like most other seeker sensitive sermons.

Have you no shame PB? Usually the slam against “seeker sensitive” sermons are that they “scratch itching ears”. So which is it?????

Of course unless you are admitting it was indeed a joke and not an angry sermon.

Unbelievable………….or not.

183   john b    
February 12th, 2009 at 1:50 am

Pastorboy Says:

I guess then, since you are only naming Ingrid, that pastorswho use abusive language and threaten people are okay, as long as they are seeker sensitive or emergent and really do not care about standing up for morality or the scripture.

just sayin’

Help me out here PB. You are confusing me here….as you often do. You won’t address the divorces of Steve Camp or Ingrid “because they aren’t in my church” but this Gary Lamb is ok for criticism? Is HE in your church?

just askin’

184   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 8:18 am

“However, I find it strange that there seems to be a fair amount of outrage against Ingrid, Ken, LR, campie, and others while circus church goat herders seem to get a pass by and large”

Please refernce my comments concerning Driscoll, McLaren, Paggit, and just recently my criticism of Bell’s new book. Those preachers do not get a “pass” here and I have NEVER had a comment moderated. Also, I comment once in a while on Steve Camp’s blog, Mike Ratliff’s, and sometimes on Pyro. Also John Hughes, Paul C., Pasterboy, Eric, and several others post regularly here with a negative perspective and people here engage them in a vigorous debate.

Now here is a little side note, I wonder why there are hardly any, if any, positive comments from the people you reference on this blog? Many contributors here like the ministry of Rob Bell and he is Joe’s pastor, and yet they allow negative comments about him and his views. Can you imagine someone saying something negative about McArthur on some of the other blogs?

I think, Chris, you allow debate on ET and that is good, but you can criticze this blog for their views but not for being closed to views opposite from their own.

185   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 8:26 am

For the record – I do not endorse hyper-seeker churches that seem to elevate theatrics at the expense of sound teaching. But to call them goat herders is condescending and self serving.

I still cannot logically reconcile why a Calvinist would be upset about nonelect goats having their own pseudo-church. Leave them alone and let them have some false joy and peace before they spend eternity burning in the will of God.

186   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 8:28 am

All the Gary Lamb stuff is just a diversion. The issue is Ingrid’s tactless and UnChristianlike attack on a her brother in Christ.

187   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 8:51 am

Neil – Before Haggard fell he was aggressively anti-gay and pro-choice and extremely active politically about both. He would have been one that marched shoulder to shoulder with Ingrid – until he fell and then her true character rose up and verbally eviscerated him.

SoL is not a Christian blog.

188   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 9:36 am

Also John Hughes, Paul C., Pasterboy, Eric, and several others post regularly here with a negative perspective and people here engage them in a vigorous debate.

The primary purpose of this blog is to defend against and point out the errors of – persecution from within… the commenting dialogue is part of that.

Unfortunately, some choose not to dialogue but instead to lob drive-by snarks that serve no purpose… yet we allow them their silliness.

189   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 9:40 am

Neil – Before Haggard fell he was aggressively anti-gay and pro-choice and extremely active politically about both. He would have been one that marched shoulder to shoulder with Ingrid – until he fell and then her true character rose up and verbally eviscerated him.

Yes – what I “took” from Haggard’s comments in the Christian Post was his understanding that such extreme and aggressive political Christianity is wrong. It was a mia culpa. When he became the objet of the wrath he saw it for what it is.

190   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 9:42 am

When Ingrid attacks a brother in Christ and questions his view of the Bible because of his political views, when she accuses him of attacking Christians because he is gay, when she assumes he wants to explore deviancy – she crossed the line.

191   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 10:28 am

Phil’s comment about the subversiveness of the cross is quite poignant since the “weapons of the cross” are not attacks, visciousness, and demeaning verbiage. Our weapons are humility, love, mercy, grace, and above all redemption.

The world recognizes attacks and self righteousness, they are confused and hoepfully drawn to love and forgiveness.

192   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 10:31 am

“when she assumes he wants to explore deviancy – she crossed the line.”

She has no line, and in fact her brand of Christianity is deviant from the perspective of the Redeemer.

193   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 10:39 am

Yes – what I “took” from Haggard’s comments in the Christian Post was his understanding that such extreme and aggressive political Christianity is wrong. It was a mia culpa. When he became the objet of the wrath he saw it for what it is.

I took something quite different Neil; and this is I guess where we differ. I see him casting stones out of hurt. It is sort of like Iggy and Dead Catcher. Obviously they have been hurt in one way or another by Christians who they perceive as legalist Pharisees, and they have no problem casting stones (See Online Discernment Mafia) It may be a Mia Culpa, but it is bourne out of shame for a sin that He has committed and has rightly been criticized for. Therefore he now throws stones at those who he used to walk shoulder to shoulder with, because they are hurt and shocked at his fall.

Now if I were among those who were personally offended by his actions (The NEA no longer represents me, so I do not have a pony in this race) I would say a couple of things. One, there is no rhyme or reason for him to be on this publicity tour so soon after the debacle. If we want to use the adulteress as an example, she went back to her life, hopefully sinned no more in that way, got married, had a family…She did not go to the press of the day and begin to throw stones back at her accusers. There was a level of shame she had for her misdeeds, which is why she was able to be forgiven and receive grace. Why can’t Haggard, Swaggart, Dollar, and others just humbly fade into obscurity? Because of the incessant need to know on the part of the secular media, I suppose, which is fed by the prurient interests of the populace at large. I argue that if he is experiencing repentance and forgiveness, he would not display such a prideful attitude that would allow him to come out swinging.

If he had offended me, and repented for his actions, I would in whatever capacity I would have to do so extend forgiveness and grace to him. But whatever relationship I had with him, I would strongly advise against the course he has chosen. I would advise him to make a quiet living and spend his life in a small church, submitting to the restoration work of an elder board and pastor. I would advise him to stay out of any spotlight, except to testify to the goodness of God in forgiving him. I would advise him to seek reconciliation with those he offended, and those who had offended him. But I would advise him to do it in a quiet, humble, and behind the scenes kind of way.

Can anyone here agree that while we may not echo the sentiments of Ingrid, that the larger problem with this story is that Haggard is acting in a way not unlike a secular celebrity or politician in self justification? Can we echo with her the call to just ‘go away’ in the sense that he has done enough damage and should seek to be restored quietly?

194   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 11:00 am

Can we echo with her the call to just ‘go away’ in the sense that he has done enough damage and should seek to be restored quietly?

Come on, John.
Anyone with a third grade reading comprehension level would discern that this is not what she is saying.

195   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 11:01 am

Can anyone here agree that while we may not echo the sentiments of Ingrid, that the larger problem with this story is that Haggard is acting in a way not unlike a secular celebrity or politician in self justification? Can we echo with her the call to just ‘go away’ in the sense that he has done enough damage and should seek to be restored quietly?

Actually in all of the interviews I’ve seen, and in the HBO documentary, he doesn’t come off as trying to justify himself at all. He genuinely seems sorry, and he plainly admits he was wrong. I don’t see him having an ax to grind as much as I see that he now realizes how some of the things he said in his former life were actually harmful and hurtful.

As far as your advice for him to go and pastor a small church, I think that would be nearly impossible given his situation. He basically is just trying to eek out a living as it is. Whether or not he’s getting paid for any of these media appearances, I don’t know. He didn’t get anything for the HBO documentary I know.

So I’m sure there were people who were hurt by his actions, and I’ve seen him apologize for them. But as Christians, our response to those who hurt us should not be to exact revenge, even it would be justified by some standard.

196   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 11:02 am

John, if you are looking for perfect repentance without any hint of human fallenness then I cannot point you to anyone. If you are suggesting that in the midst of a horror Haggard doesn’t in some way, knowingly or subconsciously, attempt to find some selfish ground I would agree, I have done the same thing in less horrific circumstances. But here is a sample of the Larry King interview that millions heard:

HAGGARD: Well, I made the worst mistake in my life. I embarrassed my wife and violated her and my children and everybody that trusted me and myself. I — I did some things that were contrary to the things that I believe. And — and I made a mess of my life.

KING: Did you not, though, preach against homosexuality?

T. HAGGARD: Yes, I did. And I…

KING: Wasn’t that hypocritical?

T. HAGGARD: It was hypocritical. Absolutely, it was. And the reason I did was because I have a belief system that I still have. I believe the bible is the word of God. I believe Jesus is the son of God. I believe in being born again, those things that are fundamental to Christianity.

And I knew that the bible was a set of ideals. The bible says God hates divorce, but we know that lots of fine, wonderful people have to go through the horrible experiences of divorce.

We know that the bible says pray continually. And I’m not giving it as an excuse, but I knew — I knew that the bible taught that sexuality was — I felt like God’s plan was for sexuality to be in a monogamous, heterosexual marriage. And I wanted that for myself. I wanted to please God. But at the same time, I had these other things going on and I ended up violating my wife and family and everything.

*******

So if anyone desires to look for inconsistencies in Haggards approach, if they are going to suggest some impure motives, and if they are going to point out imperfections in his post exposure journey, they will find much evidence that will take up some of their time and will not help forward the redemptive process.

But if we are all painfully transparent and honest, all of us fall infinitely short of exhibiting the commands of Scripture and surely the life of Christ. Haggard has lost his reputation forever, but if God can use a broken vessel for His glory then we should be the repairers of the breach, not the bearers of midnight torches coming to finish the job Satan has begun.

Haggard is still a sinner, and look around the room, he is in good company.

197   chris    
February 12th, 2009 at 11:18 am

2 Corinthians 7:10-12

10 For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow. But worldly sorrow, which lacks repentance, results in spiritual death.

11 Just see what this godly sorrow produced in you! Such earnestness, such concern to clear yourselves, such indignation, such alarm, such longing to see me, such zeal, and such a readiness to punish wrong. You showed that you have done everything necessary to make things right. 12 My purpose, then, was not to write about who did the wrong or who was wronged. I wrote to you so that in the sight of God you could see for yourselves how loyal you are to us.

Perhaps Ingrid et al could learn a thing or two about Godly sorrow.

198   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 11:26 am

It may be a Mia Culpa, but it is bourne out of shame for a sin that He has committed and has rightly been criticized for.

Rightly criticized for? Are you freaking serious? Isn’t that what the world does? Isn’t that what the media does? Isn’t that what the enemy does? Hasn’t Christ himself rightly criticized our sin by, while we were yet sinners, demonstrating God’s love for us?

Rightly criticized for? You cannot be serious about that statement. If that is your general idea about what discernment is then you are more off your rocker than I gave you credit for.

Rightly criticized?

Can anyone here agree that while we may not echo the sentiments of Ingrid, that the larger problem with this story is that Haggard is acting in a way not unlike a secular celebrity or politician in self justification?

And can we agree here that the author of Slice is acting in a way that is not unlike the satan himself or the national enquirer or God in the way she accuses, reports and judges the actions and motives of the hearts of people for whom Christ died to demonstrate God’s love?

Rightly criticized? John, do you preach in a church? Do you know what you are even saying when you say ‘rightly criticized’?

That must be why you start your own churches and ‘open air preach.’ This inoculates you from any such ‘right criticism.’

Lame.

199   Scotty    http://scottysplace-scotty.blogspot.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 11:30 am

PB: One, there is no rhyme or reason for him to be on this publicity tour so soon after the debacle.

I have to side with PB on this issue.

Putting aside the diatribe that Ingrid vented, how should forgiveness for what Haggard did manifest itself? I’m not offering up a trick question here or trying to trip anybody up, I’d like to know.

Should he be speaking in public at all? How soon can one expect to see him back in the pulpit? Should he be allowed back in the pulpit at all? Could he ever be an elder? Does his home church have an obligation to keep him in the congregation? Should he even be in the congregation that he once led?

From a guy that just sits in the pew, from my point of view, I generally see these questions answered by how much income is generated by the offender to some congregation and/or, national organization or denomination. There so often seems, in my eyes, a little more grace applied to folks that seem to have a more “national stature“, for lack of a better term, because of their money earning ability and charisma. One has only to scan the airways to spot the examples I speak about.

So, excuse me if see Haggard with a skeptical eye.

Am I obligated to forgive a thief that robbed my house? Yes, even more so if he asked for forgiveness, but, wisdom tells me I don’t ask him to house sit for me next weekend……

200   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 11:42 am

Should he be speaking in public at all? How soon can one expect to see him back in the pulpit? Should he be allowed back in the pulpit at all? Could he ever be an elder? Does his home church have an obligation to keep him in the congregation? Should he even be in the congregation that he once led?

I don’t want to give the impression that I think Haggard has done everything right. I do think he’s sorry from what I’ve seen, but there’s also a shallowness to him that’s hard to explain. I guess in a way it’s symptomatic of much of evangelical theology.

I don’t think he could ever really serve as a pastor again, unless there is a real change in his theology. Right now, it seems he is existing on a surface level. I hope he is able to get some time away from the media for his and his family’s sake.

201   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 12:01 pm

As expected, this thread which was supposed to be an expose on the unchristian rants of a woman blogger, has matriculated into another “opinion central” concerning Ted Haggard. There is an unsavory element to the church’s voyeuristic addiction to the moral sins of others, especially those of famous people.

But what am I to make when some of my brothers cannot even see the depth of the verbal transgressions exemplified on SoL? I really don’t know, it confuses me since I contend the evidence is overwhelming.

202   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:15 pm

Pastorboy,
You are as qualified to psychoanalyze me as Ingrid is to diagnose psychological disorders over the internet, so leave my motivations out of your rhetoric. You are as wrong on this issue as you are on every single issue you weigh in on.

203   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:17 pm

Pastorboy,
Have you watched the interviews Haggard has given or the HBO documentary? Or is this yet another example of you not researching anything before you suffer from diarrhea of the mouth?

204   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 12:27 pm

We all must make a choice as to who God is. Is He a policeman or is He a doctor in this church age? An executionor or a redeemer? A judge or an advocate? A seeker of men’s souls or a seeker of men’s sins? Is He quick to judge or quick to forgive?

How in God’s dear Name He could have allowed the writings of an adulterer, a murderer, and a very poor father to slip into the Scriptures is beyond me!! Unless, just maybe, God is a redeemer of sinners and a restorer of saints. Maybe…

205   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:30 pm

It may be a Mia Culpa, but it is bourne out of shame for a sin that He has committed and has rightly been criticized for. -PB

Even if this were true, and I said in the OP it does not matter your opinion of his interviews, even if you are correct it DOES NOT justify Ingrid’s attacks. What she said about him, the judgments she made, are an embarrassment.

206   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:35 pm

Can anyone here agree that while we may not echo the sentiments of Ingrid, that the larger problem with this story is that Haggard is acting in a way not unlike a secular celebrity or politician in self justification? Can we echo with her the call to just ‘go away’ in the sense that he has done enough damage and should seek to be restored quietly? – PB

Maybe – if she had addressed him with any kind of class, grace, and Christlikeness. But she chose not to. It is obvious Ingrid revels in muck racking and it was this I was addressing.

Should Haggard “go away” quietly – probably. Should Ingrid be such an ass about it – definitely not. Should you or anyone else assign motives (as you have repeatedly done) – also, definitely not.

207   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 12:44 pm

Let’s see, it sure doesn’t seem like Peter went away quietly after cursing and denying he even knew Jesus. A short visit to Acts chapter two sees him flapping his lips in public not 2 months after his cowardice and unmanly behavior.

Haggard is in God’s hands…thankfully.

208   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:45 pm

Haggard is in God’s hands…thankfully.

Exactly. The issue here is not Haggard, or Lamb, or etc… the issue is Ingrid’s blog post.

209   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:51 pm
It may be a Mia Culpa, but it is bourne out of shame for a sin that He has committed and has rightly been criticized for. -PB

Rightly criticized for? Are you freaking serious? Isn’t that what the world does? Isn’t that what the media does? Isn’t that what the enemy does? Hasn’t Christ himself rightly criticized our sin by, while we were yet sinners, demonstrating God’s love for us?

Rightly criticized for? You cannot be serious about that statement. If that is your general idea about what discernment is then you are more off your rocker than I gave you credit for.

Rightly criticized? – Jerry

Again, the issue is not Haggard himself. Yes, he deserves some “criticism” for his hypocrisy. But Jerry is right, what spews forth from Ingrid is not mere criticism, it is a vile rhetoric more suitable for the world…

210   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
PB: One, there is no rhyme or reason for him to be on this publicity tour so soon after the debacle.

I have to side with PB on this issue.

Putting aside the diatribe that Ingrid vented, how should forgiveness for what Haggard did manifest itself? I’m not offering up a trick question here or trying to trip anybody up, I’d like to know. Scotty

Whether or not PB has a valid point here is irrelevant. The issue is not Haggard and whether or not he should be doing this, that, or even the other thing… the issue is Ingrid’s attack.

211   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 1:42 pm

Rightly criticized for? Are you freaking serious? Isn’t that what the world does? Isn’t that what the media does? Isn’t that what the enemy does? Hasn’t Christ himself rightly criticized our sin by, while we were yet sinners, demonstrating God’s love for us?
Rightly criticized for? You cannot be serious about that statement. If that is your general idea about what discernment is then you are more off your rocker than I gave you credit for.
Rightly criticized?

Your right Jerry…

What I should have said is rightly judged. Far more serious in tone and in effort, but valid none the less. He should be judged in that what he did was wrong. Even his behavior at this point should be rightly judged.

All for an eye to redemption, so that in the end, he may be saved.

212   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 1:51 pm

Whether or not PB has a valid point here is irrelevant. The issue is not Haggard and whether or not he should be doing this, that, or even the other thing… the issue is Ingrid’s attack.

My question is; whether or not you agree with the tenor of her attack, is questioning and judging his attention seeking behavior and stone throwing valid?

213   John Hughes    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:16 pm

Unfortunately, some choose not to dialogue but instead to lob drive-by snarks that serve no purpose… yet we allow them their silliness.

Hey! I’ve been posting here for years. I’ve been dialoguing all along and have even been moved off center on some issues.

I’m going to go sulk now and lick my wounds. But I forgive you guys.

BTW Lamb’s stolen trailer diatribe is indefensable in my opinion. It shows a complete lack of faith in God’s provision, it shows hate against an enemy, it shows someone who considers possession s(especially ministry possessions) as **theirs** and not Gods (and did I mention it demonstrates a complete lack of faith)? Whatever happened to joyously having one’s property confescated? What happened to love for one’s enemies? Blessing one’s enemies? What might happen if when they caught the theives instead of breaking their legs they gave them the equipment and even threw in an extra CD player?

Defense of things like these plays right in to the ODM’s charge that you do exactly the **same** thing for your home team as they do for theirs and will defend any thing the ODM’s attack. The standard seems to be “be anti-ODM”. If they are for it, we are against it. If they are against it, we are for it. I’ve never heard of this guy, but that was pretty sad. But on the other hand, I don’t need to know about this guy and it’s really none of my business as I do not live in his community or go to his church.

214   John Hughes    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:19 pm

What happened to love for one’s enemies? Blessing one’s enemies? What might happen if when they caught the theives instead of breaking their legs they gave them the equipment and even threw in an extra CD player

?

Gosh. Can I take that back.? It comes across as awfully emergent on a second read.

215   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:20 pm

Pastorboy,
Have you actually watched the documentary and interviews he’s done? Or are you basing your judgment about his “stone throwing” on the judgment of her highness, the lord’s prophet Ingrid?

Because everything I see in the linked article is probably at least in the realm of possibility.

For example, he says:

“I think the religious right is increasingly impotent right now in America,” Haggard said on ABC’s World News Sunday. “And it’s going to have to return to the Gospel in order to regain strength.”

That could have come from one of the ADMs, and you would have amened it.

“Every time a prominent politician or religious leader falls that is our opportunity to demonstrate the Gospel to the secular world,” Haggard said during a meeting with evangelicals from New York Divinity School. “Because that is the only time they’ll show up with their cameras.”

Yeah, no kidding, sadly, this statement along is probably what infuriated Ingrid and yourself because its so obviously an indictment on your “ministries”.

Also, does Ingrid even read the articles she links to? Why is she so eager to pretend like Ted is pursing homosexual relatinoships under the guise of legitimacy since he says in the very article she linked:

The fallen pastor, who now describes himself as a “heterosexual with issues,” says he still struggles with his sexuality, but that his marriage is now stronger than ever. He told CNN’s Larry King in an earlier interview that he is pleased with where he is now and doesn’t fear that a gay relationship could happen again. He also said he has never thought of leaving Christianity.

Ted Haggard is a far better example of a Christian than any of the ADMs. At least when he sins publicly he admits it is sin.

216   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:21 pm

My question is; whether or not you agree with the tenor of her attack, is questioning and judging his attention seeking behavior and stone throwing valid?

Yes to questioning his stone throwing.

No to judging his “attention seeking behavior”… this assigns motives which we have no way of knowing.

217   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:23 pm

Hey! I’ve been posting here for years. I’ve been dialoguing all along and have even been moved off center on some issues.

I think you were listed among those who have engaged in dialogue.

218   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:24 pm

Defense of things like these plays right in to the ODM’s charge that you do exactly the **same** thing for your home team as they do for theirs and will defend any thing the ODM’s attack. The standard seems to be “be anti-ODM”. If they are for it, we are against it. If they are against it, we are for it. I’ve never heard of this guy, but that was pretty sad. But on the other hand, I don’t need to know about this guy and it’s really none of my business as I do not live in his community or go to his church.

I didn’t see any defense of the stolen trailer diatribe here. Pastorboy tried to deflect the discussion into the hyperbolic joking of Lamb’s sermon in which he joked about violence against Satan (who is a married woman who was a member of his church in Iowa).

Speaking of which, when is one of the ADMs going to man up and excoriate Lamb for his unBiblical belief in Satan as a married woman in Iowa? It’d be as legitimate a beef as complaining about his joking.

219   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:25 pm

My question is; whether or not you agree with the tenor of her attack, is questioning and judging his attention seeking behavior and stone throwing valid?

I don’t see him “throwing stones”, actually. Haggard said this in the interview:

“I think the religious right is increasingly impotent right now in America,” Haggard said on ABC’s World News Sunday. “And it’s going to have to return to the Gospel in order to regain strength.”

So how is that throwing stones? It’s pretty much the truth from my perspective. You also have to realize was the de facto leader of the religious right for many years, so it seems it’s him regretting where he led it.

Sometimes it seems God uses humiliating things such as what Haggard has gone through to help show them the deeper issues in their thinking. To me, Haggard struggle with homosexuality is just a symptom of larger and deeper issues that go down to the core of Americanized evangelicalism. To some, like Ingrid, this Americanized version of Christianity is the correct version of Christianity, so on one hand I’m not surprised when she reacts the way she has.

220   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:27 pm

I agree, John. The little I’ve seen of Lamb seems very fleshly. But I’m sure there are thousands like him who like the UFC, endorse fight club, and believe violence, verbal and physical, is what exhibits true, Godly manhood.

It seems like a trend.

221   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:27 pm

BTW Lamb’s stolen trailer diatribe is indefensable in my opinion

I agree. As stupid as it is to try and say he really wanted to attack a church member with a bat… I agree about the stolen trailer rant.

222   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:29 pm

Speaking of which, when is one of the ADMs going to man up and excoriate Lamb for his unBiblical belief in Satan as a married woman in Iowa?

Technically he didn’t say Satan was a married woman in Iowa… he said Satan attended that church and had a wife…

223   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:30 pm

Defense of things like these plays right in to the ODM’s charge that you do exactly the **same** thing for your home team as they do for theirs and will defend any thing the ODM’s attack. The standard seems to be “be anti-ODM”. If they are for it, we are against it. If they are against it, we are for it. I’ve never heard of this guy, but that was pretty sad. But on the other hand, I don’t need to know about this guy and it’s really none of my business as I do not live in his community or go to his church.

I don’t think anyone has defended the trailer piece, other than I did note that it seems that it was written out of anger, and I hope that I have experienced enough grace in my life that I can show someone who loses his temper some as well. Just because the man is a pastor doesn’t mean he suddenly ceases to be human.

I will say that I find the thought of Christians dredging this stuff up and posting it a lot more offensive than the actual rant itself. That whole mindset behind that is the thinking of, “thank God I’m not like this sinful pastor here.”

224   Jerry    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:31 pm

#212 no. If you all want him to go away so badly the trick is to ignore him.

225   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:32 pm

To some, like Ingrid, this Americanized version of Christianity is the correct version of Christianity, so on one hand I’m not surprised when she reacts the way she has. – Phil

I add “Republicanized” to that… God is not only an American… He’s a Republican.

226   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:34 pm

No to judging his “attention seeking behavior”… this assigns motives which we have no way of knowing.

I disagree….if he didn’t want attention, why would he be on the TV, Newspapers, and lecturing at Divinity Schools? We can judge actions, if not motives.

To me, Haggard struggle with homosexuality is just a symptom of larger and deeper issues that go down to the core of Americanized evangelicalism. To some, like Ingrid, this Americanized version of Christianity is the correct version of Christianity, so on one hand I’m not surprised when she reacts the way she has.

I disagree. Haggard is a result of Americanized Christianity, which brought us the goat herders and their entertainment church services made to put buts in the pews and avoiding any talk whatsoever of Biblical Righteousness and the cross, choosing instead to inflict pain on those who would dare steal from them…etc. etc.

That said, there is hope for Haggard, and all of us…if we will repent and trust alone in Jesus.

227   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:39 pm

Neil – Ingrid’s charcterization of Haggard as the Z”gift that keeps on giving” is to me the worst of all. She openly refers to his sins and troubles as a continuing gift to vultures to keep feeding upon. Could there be anything less Christian?

As to Haggard’s desire to tell his story of sin and restoration, God included many, many stories of people’s sinful stories and His forgiveness. I always thought that publicly admitting your sin was part of the redemptive process.

228   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:42 pm

I disagree….if he didn’t want attention, why would he be on the TV, Newspapers, and lecturing at Divinity Schools? We can judge actions, if not motives.

I guess we must assign the same motives to the (extreme) likes of Ingrid and Billy Graham… the former has a radio show and blog to attract attention while the latter fills stadiums to stroke his own ego… WOW, this motivation assigning is way too easy.

Seriously though – you have NO WAY of knowing if he is seeking attention or, as Phil said; “[He] was the de facto leader of the religious right for many years, so it seems it’s him regretting where he led it.”

229   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:42 pm

I disagree….if he didn’t want attention, why would he be on the TV, Newspapers, and lecturing at Divinity Schools? We can judge actions, if not motives.

If you’d actually seen the HBO documentary, you might think differently about this. Haggard was given one year’s severance pay when he left his church, and didn’t have much in the way of savings. What he did have was spent through in the next year. He has two children, and basically has no marketable skills aside from being a pastor.

I also believe that people are seeking him out more than he’s seeking them. It would be hard to say no to giving someone an interview if that helped to clothe, shelter, and feed your family for the next few months.

I disagree. Haggard is a result of Americanized Christianity, which brought us the goat herders and their entertainment church services made to put buts in the pews and avoiding any talk whatsoever of Biblical Righteousness and the cross, choosing instead to inflict pain on those who would dare steal from them…etc. etc.

Haggard was one of the most conservative of conservative Christians, actually. He regularly preached “hard” sermons about sin and social issues. The ADMs should have loved him (although he was Pentecostal, so I’m sure they hold that against him).

What it shows is that creating a Christianity focusing on the externals at the expense of the truth fails.

230   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:45 pm

“choosing instead to inflict pain on those who would dare steal from them…etc. etc.”

His words were wrong, however I know many orthodox believers who own guns (like me) who would shoot someone who they caught them stealing a trailer on their property.

So if we find fault with Lamb’s words let us look inward as well.

231   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:46 pm

Or

Haggard is a result of Americanized Republicanized Christianity Religious Right, which brought us the goat herders slayers and their entertainment church services holier-than-Democrats media made to put buts in the pews and avoiding any talk whatsoever of Biblical Righteousness and the cross, choosing instead to [the rest just made no sense...]

232   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:48 pm

And once again John, I will voice my disgust at your willingness to use eschatological terms for the lost against brothers and sisters in Christ.

233   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:49 pm

I do not want to be a hypocrite, so I vow not to shoot someone who I caught stealing from me…except Joe Martino, who I would shoot in the leg to stop him. :cool:

234   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 2:51 pm

Phil,

Re #229 – facts only get in the way of a good “goat-herder” rant… anger is such a seductive emotion.

235   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 2:52 pm

The ironic thing to me is that John can condemn Lamb for talking about beating up someone who stole his church trailer, but he would kill a foreigner with no questions asked when commanded by the president, according to what he said on another thread. Seems sort of morally relativistic to me…

236   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 3:00 pm

Do not muzzle the goat.

A goat herder is worthy of his hire.

237   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 3:15 pm

I think again, Phil, we are getting away from Neil’s OP by attacking me for my view of war.

That said, Ingrid’s use of language is over the top in your point of view, and non redemptive. I see it as frustration over a former leader in the religious right who has not only fallen, but seems to be on a self promotion tear which as reopened the wound that he placed by his behavior on the church.

and #232

Jesus used those terms. sheep and goats, whear and tares, good fruit and bad. I would say the fruit of modern american evangelicalism is bad. Wouldn’t you agree?

238   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 3:15 pm

I’m always amazed at how ADMs speak authoritatively on topics which they have no way of knowing about.

In this thread alone we have:
The motives of Ted Haggard (even failing to watch source material like the HBO documentary doesn’t stop them).

Condemning entire churches to hell on the basis of 2 minutes of a sermon by their pastor (out of a 40 minute sermon no less).

This is what you call discernment?

239   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 3:18 pm

Jesus used those terms. sheep and goats, whear and tares, good fruit and bad. I would say the fruit of modern american evangelicalism is bad. Wouldn’t you agree?

Since it produced wolfian goat herders like you, I would agree.

240   John Hughes    
February 12th, 2009 at 3:19 pm

Phil: I will say that I find the thought of Christians dredging this stuff up and posting it a lot more offensive than the actual rant itself. That whole mindset behind that is the thinking of, “thank God I’m not like this sinful pastor here.”

Completely agree.

*********

Iggy was defending Lamb’s rant.

*********

Phil: The ironic thing to me is that John can condemn Lamb for talking about beating up someone who stole his church trailer,

Wrong “John”.

241   John Hughes    
February 12th, 2009 at 3:22 pm

Rick: I could not bring my self to shoot someone stealing church property. I would call the police however, but would have to pray about how to handle the charges if they were apprehended.

I would be willing to shoot someone making forceful entry in to my home.

Apples and oranges to me.

242   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 3:25 pm

Wrong “John”.

I was referring to PB (John Chisham), not you, just to clarify.

243   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 3:26 pm

John – I did not mean you, but I know gung ho preachers, orthodox in their theology, who would.

BTW – if you have any unsaved in your church – you’re a goat herder! You win the prize!! How self righteously adolescent.

244   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 3:32 pm

Jesus used those terms. sheep and goats, whear and tares, good fruit and bad. I would say the fruit of modern american evangelicalism is bad. Wouldn’t you agree?

I can’t say it’s all bad, but there is much that leaves much to be desired.

The thing is that I actually think that many of the things that Ingrid links to to such as topical sermons and the like seem very silly and stupid to me as well. But, our reasons for disliking them are very different from what I can tell. Whereas Ingrid sees them as a disgrace because they’re simply not the correct way to do church, I see them as people desperately clinging onto the past oddly enough.

In any case, I do not feel comfortable making a judgment call on who’s a sheep and who’s a goat. All I will say is that it seems many of the goats in that parable assume they are doing all the correct religious things. Unfortunately for them, it turns out they neglected the true heart of the Gospel by failing to exhibit love for God by loving their neighbor.

245   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 3:53 pm

41″Then he will say to those on his left [the goats] ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

44″They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

45″He will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

Matthew 5.41-45 NIV
HT: BibleGateway.com

246   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 4:02 pm

Jesus used those terms. sheep and goats, whear and tares, good fruit and bad. I would say the fruit of modern american evangelicalism is bad. Wouldn’t you agree?

The Judge gets to use these terms that we do not. The Judge gets to judge, we do not.

As was pointed out, these are eschatological terms that reference a person’s eternal state – your flippant use of them to imply someone is hell-bound (because you dislike their methods) is disgusting.

247   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 4:04 pm

I’d say the fruit is different, in some ways worse, in others its better.

248   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 4:08 pm

That said, Ingrid’s use of language is over the top in your point of view, and non redemptive. I see it as frustration over a former leader in the religious right who has not only fallen, but seems to be on a self promotion tear which as reopened the wound that he placed by his behavior on the church.

That she was frustrated is moot… if she was/is she should learn to control her frustration – “be angry and do not sin” not “sin because you are angry.”

249   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 12th, 2009 at 4:28 pm

Goat herders is a very appropriate term in my view for the seeker sensitive and many emergents.

They take people who are admitedly goats, and in the case of seeker sensitive cater to their fleshly desires to attract them to their church. It is not much different with the emergent crowd, it is a come as you are for a god as you want him to be in your post modern milleu.

It is different Rick, than having goats in your church (which we all do) despite the fact that you are there to serve and worship God. If they remain goats, they will simply be uncomfortable in the fellowship.

250   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 4:33 pm

But they are not goats and tares until the judgment.
Up until that point, they are potential sheep and wheat.

I do find it interesting that Jesus said the sheep seemed surprised as did the goats.

251   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 4:38 pm

But they are not goats and tares until the judgment.
Up until that point, they are potential sheep and wheat.

I do find it interesting that Jesus said the sheep seemed surprised as did the goats.

I like how Brennan Manning describes the scene in one of his books – the prim proper folks who assume they’re the sheep standing in line while all the roughshod ones they assumed were goats are let in ahead. They become more and more irate complaining, “how can God let these people in? Isn’t there any justice up here?”

They end up condemned because of their own lack of compassion…

252   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 4:39 pm

The Scriptures declar that HE will then divide the sheep from the goats. Jesus told usm not to dig up tares because we do not know which is which.

253   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 4:41 pm

Amen, Rick!

254   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 4:42 pm

Phil, is that from “Ragamuffin Gospel”?

255   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 4:45 pm

Actually, I read it in The Relentless Tenderness of Jesus.

256   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 4:49 pm

Nathanael – It is interesting that in Jesus’s account, even the saved are perplexed by their good fortune. “When did we see you in prison and visited you?”

The unsaved expected to be saved, and the saved seem bewildered at their divine favor. Doesn’t seem to match up with the ambiance of today’s self righteousness, does it? :cool:

257   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 4:50 pm

‘Tis indeed interesting, Sir Richard.

258   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 4:51 pm

You’ve created an idol of self and your self-righteous judgment, literally worshiping your self and your ability do judge.

You’d do well not to stand in God’s place. He tends to get a bit irate when people or things take his place.

259   Neil    
February 12th, 2009 at 5:25 pm

Pastorboy,

As you have done so often before you have created a caricature. Whether the caricature is Emergent or Seeker-sensativve, or Purpose driven… it is a caricature nontheless.

Your caricatures have all the faults (perceived and real) that you can discern, create, and pour into them. You use this caricatures, as well as a host of cliche’s to construct a false dichotomy between what you perceive to be the right way (your way) and the wrong way.

From what I have seen you may use the Bible, but you use it as a weapon to divide the parts of the body – often times based on your caricature and your ethnocentric view of what God approves.

I wonder which God dislikes more… those who methodologically error on the side of “attracting them to church” or those who error on the side of self-righteous indignation by taking the role of Jesus upon themselves and deciding who is eschatological Hell-bound.

I omitted your petty and cliche use of “fleshly” – when it is used like an ADM it is void of any biblical referent.

260   Bo Diaz    
February 12th, 2009 at 5:35 pm

They take people who are admitedly goats, and in the case of seeker sensitive cater to their fleshly desires to attract them to their church. It is not much different with the emergent crowd, it is a come as you are for a god as you want him to be in your post modern milleu.

Do you even know who you’re attacking anymore? You seem to be ignorant about everyone who you rage against. I’m a little shocked its possible to be as wrong as you are.

261   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 12th, 2009 at 5:52 pm

If we could go back in time and bring forward a New England evangelical congregation from 1750, and we brought them into John McArthur’s church (for example), they would leave before the service began since the entire environment and vast indulgent atmosphere would make them reject it as Christian.

The point is all of us are tethered to the culture in some respects. Glass houses – stones = don’t throw.

262   Nathanael    http://www.borrowedbreath.com/
February 12th, 2009 at 5:56 pm

People who live in glass houses should wear clothes.

263   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 12th, 2009 at 6:04 pm

People who live in glass houses should wear clothes.

Or get some curtains… :-)

264   nc    
February 12th, 2009 at 6:22 pm

237:

PB,

ummmm….how exactly did TH wound Ingrid and the like?
Prior to his public fall his church represented much of what gets criticized with respect to “mega-churches” that “only entertain” and “charismatic/pentecostal” so-called unbiblicalness, etc.

How did the “fall” of a man they had no real use for in the first place hurt them?

I don’t even know how his fall hurt me, or you, or anyone else except his own local church, his family, and himself?

Then again, he maybe he is hurting us by keeping the issue on the front burner so that our collective feet are held to the fire when it comes to actually extending hope, joy, forgiveness…the Gospel.

hmmm….

something to think about.

265   John Hughes    
February 12th, 2009 at 6:39 pm

I once attended a protestant worship service in the year 2423 (via the astra projection techniques I learned at a Richard Foster Seminar). I found the worship stoggy, academic and uninspiring and was very put off by the pews (without cushions) and the elevated lecturn (everything old is new again). The choir was “OK”, however. I really enjoyed their rendition of that stirring anthems of antiquity – “I Burn for You”. I then wafted over to the Catholic Church down the street (St. Frueh of the Immaculate Fart of Iggy, if I remember correctly). The service was all in Latin and the nuns wore full habits. Ingrid would be pleased.

266   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 9:28 am

#264
Because he ‘represented’ (falsely) Evangelicals because of his presidency of the American Evangelical Association.

As I mentioned before, I have disavowed any membership I might have had in that group.

Any judgement of them is on the basis of their watered down theology and ecumenism with Muslims.

267   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:15 am

Any judgement of them is on the basis of their watered down theology and ecumenism with Muslims.

Technically “ecumenism with Muslims” is oxymoronic… but I guess that’s the risk you take when speaking in cliche’s.

268   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:15 am

Any judgement of them is on the basis of their watered down theology and ecumenism with Muslims.

Proverbs 17:28

269   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:17 am

Technically “ecumenism with Muslims” is oxymoronic… but I guess that’s the risk you take when speaking in cliche’s.

You always exhibit more grace than me, Neil. I was going to say it was simply moronic… :mrgreen:

270   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:24 am

Not speaking in cliche’s- they wanted ecumenism with Muslims

Ecumenism (also ëcumenism, oecumenism, œcumenism, or even eucumenism) now mainly refers to initiatives aimed at greater religious unity or cooperation.
In its broadest sense, this unity or cooperation may refer to a worldwide religious unity; by the advocation of a greater sense of shared spirituality across the three Abrahamic faiths of Judaism, Christianity and Islam. Most commonly, however, ecumenism is used in a more narrow meaning; referring to a greater cooperation among different religious denominations of a single one of these faiths.

HT Wikipedia

271   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:25 am

Phil,

It would make an interesting post – to analyze how phrases are used by ADM’s and their allies to the point they become cliche and therefore meaningless.

“Fleshly” – “watered-down” – “ecumenical” — etc.

These concepts all have biblical foundations, but they get used in such flippant ways… often just synonymous with “Something cultural I don’t like” – in the hands of cliche ADM’s they become meaningless.

272   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:25 am

Most commonly, however, ecumenism is used in a more narrow meaning; referring to a greater cooperation among different religious denominations of a single one of these faiths.

I guess I am not the one narrow in this instance.

273   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:27 am

#271

Not cliche, the NAE signed a statement of understanding between Muslims and Christian.

It said we serve the same God.

Not cliche. Heresy.

274   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:29 am

John – are you a member of a denomination that has been accused in several lawsuits of taking over the assets of some CMA churches (Vietnamese, Chinese, etc.) and been accused of being heartless? And are you a member of of a denomination where many pastors have set up church growth strategies in their CMA churches, some even dabbling with emergent views?

275   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:30 am

ecumenism

noun
1. a movement promoting union between religions (especially between Christian churches)
2. (Christianity) the doctrine of the ecumenical movement that promotes cooperation and better understanding among different religious denominations: aimed at universal Christian unity

This is a dictionary’s definition which I’d take over wiki… but ultimately words only have the meanings we give them (kinda like labyrinths) – so if “ecumenism” has expanded to include religions w/o churches – I stand corrected.

276   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:31 am

#268

Matthew 5:22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.

We can all throw verses around, chris.

277   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:31 am

noun
1. a movement promoting union between religions

278   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:32 am

Because he ‘represented’ (falsely) Evangelicals because of his presidency of the American Evangelical Association.

I thought I was going to be able to leave it alone but I can’t.

Represented falsely? How exactly?

He doesn’t represent me any more than you represent me when you’re out on street corners with your placards, tracts, and bait and switch sinner quiz.

Certainly he did damage to the cause of Christ which as I’m certain we all have done. And all of us will have to answer for that. Not to Larry King, Ingrid, PB, or even or families but to Christ.

Ingrid et al certainly are not advancing the cause themselves with their bunker house sniper brigade. The Christian Army the only army in the world that shoots their wounded. “SINNER! Ready, Aim, Publish”

279   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:32 am

RE #268…

True enough… but some, such as Matthew 5:22 have a boomerang effect.

280   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:33 am

#274

Yep, and like Charles Spurgeon, I am on the forefront of critiquing these churches within my denomination sliding down the slippery slope.

281   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:33 am

#279

Amen. Already hit me square.

282   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:34 am

Matthew 5:22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.

Thanks PB I’ll take it under advisement.

283   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:34 am

Ingrid et al certainly are not advancing the cause themselves with their bunker house sniper brigade. The Christian Army the only army in the world that shoots their wounded. “SINNER! Ready, Aim, Publish”

And here you have brought us back to the topic. Nothing Pastoboy has mustered (whether real or imagined) against Haggard justifies what Ingrid did…

284   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:36 am

#274

As a denomination church, we sign a revisionary clause which means if we cease to function as a C&MA church our assets revert to the district.

It is all very clearly spelled out, and legal.

285   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:37 am

Yep, and like Charles Spurgeon, I am on the forefront of critiquing these churches within my denomination sliding down the slippery slope.

Spurgeon… didn’t he popularize the mega-church?

Anyway, John, how is the CMA (I know I’m gonna be sorry I asked this) slipping down the slope?

YIKES – another cliche’

286   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:40 am

The “revisionary clause” is a control mechanism that resembles the Church of Rome and dilutes the indigenous aspect of the local assembly.

In short is restricts the movement of the Holy Spirit and makes the denomination a business.

287   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:43 am

The problem I have with the use of cliche’s is they are so often used against things that are biblically irrelevant… I’m thinking past PB here to the ADM’s we defend against.

Most of the times what they call “fleshly” or “ecumenical” or “worldly” or “watered-down” are just culturally conditioned changes in how people do the Gospel… yet they elevate them to biblical standards.

288   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:44 am

#285

Rick spelled it out pretty well;

We have as a denomination been guilty of using church growth methods that can be called seeker sensitive or purpose driven, in fact as an elder before I was a pastor I had to read PDC because we as a church applied these methods.

We also as a denomination have been educating some students at our colleges in ’spiritual formation’ which includes ‘contemplative prayer’ and lectio divina.

We also have a number of ‘emergent’ congregations.

Yep, our denomination is guilty as charged; but at its core is a denomination that loves Jesus as Savior Sanctifier, Healer, and Coming King, strives to reach the world for Jesus, and as individuals chase after Christ our Sanctifier.

289   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:45 am

#286

Well, you can open an independent church if you so choose. Those who have chosen to go CMA and other denominations have similar revisionary clauses.

290   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:48 am

My point, John, was that you belong to and support financially a denomination that in your view is compromising substantially. How then can you throw stones at those who belong to the AEA?

291   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:49 am

but at its core is a denomination that loves Jesus as Savior Sanctifier, Healer, and Coming King, strives to reach the world for Jesus, and as individuals chase after Christ our Sanctifier.

Wow, those statements are rather vague. They also fit the framework of, say, the Mars Hill narrative theology statement…

292   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:50 am

Having a denomination that cooperates on evangelistic efforts etc. is one thing, but having the assets tethered to the “mother church” is unscriptural and mirrors the RCC.

293   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:50 am

We have as a denomination been guilty of using church growth methods that can be called seeker sensitive or purpose driven, in fact as an elder before I was a pastor I had to read PDC because we as a church applied these methods.

Being sensitive to seekers (all theological arguments aside since we are not using the term technically) and honing the church’s purpose are not slippery slopes. How they are applied may be. it’s the broad-brushed-ness that is so annoying.

We also as a denomination have been educating some students at our colleges in ’spiritual formation’ which includes ‘contemplative prayer’ and lectio divina.

Nothing wrong here (cf. # 287)…

We also have a number of ‘emergent’ congregations.

_ent or _ing? and if they sign-off on the CMA doctrine – what’s the big deal?

294   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:52 am

#283

I am not here to justify Ingrid.

In this comment stream, I am simply trying to provide some balance against the seeming rabid attacks against her supposed rabid attacks!

Can’t you all who comment against Ingrid’s perceived rage and ragings are doing the same thing, no matter how much you cry that you are not? Especially when you get personal and go up against her as a person and her divorce and her this and her that.

Yep. You become what you hate. I truly wonder what a non-believer would think looking at this site and its comment streams.

295   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:54 am

Being sensitive to seekers (all theological arguments aside since we are not using the term technically) and honing the church’s purpose are not slippery slopes. How they are applied may be. it’s the broad-brushed-ness that is so annoying.

The only seeker is God.

No human seeks after God (Romans 3)

296   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:54 am

My point, John, was that you belong to and support financially a denomination that in your view is compromising substantially. How then can you throw stones at those who belong to the AEA?

Yes, that’s the crazy thing – somehow these people can justify making GBA attacks on everyone and their brother, but somehow they manage to ignore all their own spurious connections.

Ingrid is Lutheran. My wife grew up in Lutheran circles and never even heard anything like a basic explanation of having a relationship with Christ in any services or church camps. They believed they were saved because they baptized as infants. That’s much more dangerous theologically than having a pastor dressed in a clown costume. Yet, people like Ingrid seem to have selective moral outrage that always favors their own clan. It’s nice how that works out for them…

297   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:54 am

Pastorboy,

The more I read of what you write, the more I’d bet that if you were at the Council of Jerusalem (cf. Acts 15) you’d be arguing that the Gentiles must become Jews to be saved.

In other words, your opposition is so strong, broad, and culturally based that you run the risk of denying the Spirit’s work in others.

They cannot receive the Holy Spirit if they don’t do it like we do…

298   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:56 am

The only seeker is God.

No human seeks after God (Romans 3)

Please STOP speaking in chiche’s… and NO the Bible is not a cliche… just your use of it.

I SPECIFICALLY SAID: (all theological arguments aside since we are not using the term technically)

299   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:59 am

Can’t you all who comment against Ingrid’s perceived rage and ragings are doing the same thing, no matter how much you cry that you are not? Especially when you get personal and go up against her as a person and her divorce and her this and her that.

The fact that people are holding Ingrid to the same standard that hold others to is unacceptable to you? It’s amazing how quickly people who supposedly hold to sola scriptura can throw Biblical principles out the window when they don’t like them.

If Ingrid doesn’t want to be judged harshly she needs to refrain from judging others harshly. It’s not a hard concept to grasp.

300   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 10:59 am

With a couple of exception, I have seen no comments that come anywhere near here anger.

301   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 10:59 am

#298…Okay
Romans 3: 10b-12 “None is righteous, no, not one;
11 no one understands;
no one seeks for God.
12 All have turned aside; together they have become worthless;
no one does good,
not even one.”

John 6: 37 All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out

302   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:01 am

#299

“We will quit doing it if she quits doing it”

I get it. So Jr. High of ya’ll.

I will live a Christian life if she will live like I think a Christian should.

Umm Hmmm

303   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:02 am

Can’t you all who comment against Ingrid’s perceived rage and ragings are doing the same thing, no matter how much you cry that you are not?

Wrong, it’s correction.

Especially when you get personal and go up against her as a person and her divorce and her this and her that.

Strawman. Only a couple have mentioned that in the context of her narrow view of pastoral worthiness against the backdrop of her need of past grace and refusal to offer grace to others.

304   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:06 am

#299

“We will quit doing it if she quits doing it”

I get it. So Jr. High of ya’ll.

I will live a Christian life if she will live like I think a Christian should.

Umm Hmmm

Oh brother…

You don’t get satire so why would I expect you to actually get logic?

305   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:07 am

“We will quit doing it if she quits doing it”

I get it. So Jr. High of ya’ll.

I will live a Christian life if she will live like I think a Christian should.

Umm Hmmm

Could you just once make point without constructing a strawman. Pretty please…

First of all, no one has attacked Ingrid. All anyone has done here is expose the fallacious nature of her words. I do not believe anyone here is returning her hatred with hate. I personally feel sorry for her as I believe is trapped in a religious mindset that is ultimately destructive both to her and the people she attacks. I hope she can truly experience the freeing grace and love of Christ sometime.

Answering a false attack is not hateful. It does seem that most of the time it is fruitless in changing the minds of people who are dead set in defending her, but I do believe it is helpful in presenting others with a Christian response. The way to overcome lies is to offer the truth.

306   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:10 am

#301 – OK… I give up. You have become a caricature in and of yourself.

We are not arguing Arminianism vs Calvinism… and for every verse one side posts the other has a response…

You know what I mean when I reference being sensitive to seekers, yet you choose to obfuscate the discussion.

307   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:20 am

Phil,

I think some of the comments get nastier than they need to be – I’ll grant PB that. But as Rick pointed out, there is a significant difference between Ingrid’s vitriolic posts and our defensive responses.

Saying our responses are the same as her’s is mind-boggling.

308   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:22 am

No judgement? No attacks on Ingrid personally?

Bo Diaz:

When are you going to get around to applying that to people like Ingrid and Steve Camp who usurp the power of elders and yet are divorced?

Pastor”boy keeps running and dodging. He refuses to confront Ingrid and Steve Campy on their elder usurping ways, and he refuses to answer the question as to why Haggard hasn’t felt the grace of God because he condemns and yet all of his little ADM friends condemn far more regularly and viciously yet have felt the grace of God.

“Pastor” boy,
Is Ingrid living in a reconciled relationship with her ex husband?
In fact, you even link to CRN.com which Ingrid posts on. Clearly you are recommending the writings of an unrepentant divorcee.

Come on Pastor Boy, go FOIA up Ingrid’s divorce and post that too!

We’ve already seen what little value the ADMs put on marriage, we shouldn’t be surprised that ADMs attack anyone who does.

I am only up to 61 with one commenter….Should I continue?

309   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:26 am

PB,

Those might, strong emphasis on ‘might’, but I believe you were the one who instigated most of those responses.

310   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:27 am

I believe Bo was using hyperbole to make a point about vitriolic legalism. I and most here have never referred to that aspect of Ingrid’s past, in fact she seems like a good wife and mother and has adopted needy children as well. That should not be questioned.

That is a side issue and a straw man, take it up with Bo but his comments are not written by the overseer of this blog. I would mention that “sociopath” and “monster” trumps “divorcee”.

311   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:28 am

#309

The first was unsolicited by anybody.

312   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:28 am

I am only up to 61 with one commenter….Should I continue?

Well, go ahead…

We don’t delete comments here, except in the rarest of occasions (which, ironically was to protect you), so we don’t really censor what people say. Bo isn’t a writer here, so we’re not responsible for it.

I would also note that I have a hard time seeing those things as attacks, especially how you raked Amy Grant and Sandi Patti over the coals earlier.

What you and the ADMs do is the equivalent of poking a bear with a stick. You then act surprised if the bear bites you.

313   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:32 am

Ingrid says:

“Human Train Wreck”

“Monsters”

“Christ hating”

“Sociopath”

“Dark corner…explore your sexuality…deviance”

“Airbrushed/Guru Pastors”

“Blindingly white teeth”

“faux Christianity”

Need I go on? That’s all from one article.

314   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:33 am

The first was unsolicited by anybody.

Thus my use of the word “most”…

315   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:33 am

Look, John, we’re not going to let you deflect on this. You can list all you want, yet what you have is one guy commenting on one topic – Ingrid’s marital status.

What you fail to distinguish is – this is one guy in the comments – not the tenor of the post itself (unlike SoL)

We allow comments and only censor them in very extreme circumstances (unlike Sol)

This opens us up for heated debates (unlike Sol) that can get inflamed from time to time.

I challenge you to show how those who post on this site engage in the same vitriolic and shrill anger exhibited by Ingrid.

316   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:43 am

“Blindingly white teeth”

I have to admit that this one actually made me laugh when I first read it. As if having white teeth is somehow a measure of spiritual health or lack thereof…

317   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:43 am

…furthermore, PB, tone and tenor aside (see I can deflect a well as you) what Bo raised was at least a biblical issue – divorce/remarriage/ministry…

…Ingrid’s opening salvo against Haggard was politically based…

318   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:44 am

#315

My point…which you won’t see, is that the ‘protection’ of Haggard (and others) always goes to a personal attack (Ingrid’s marriage status). Neil did a fine job in the OP giving his opinion on Ingrid without attacking, or even getting personal.

I don’t agree with the OP, but I do not attack Neil personally.

People agree with the OP, and go on to attack Ingrid on an unrelated topic.

How is that any different than what you say she does?

The challenge is irreleevant, because my definition would be when a person goes after someone personally on an unrelated topic, Like I demonstrated ms. Diaz did, and others did as well. That to me is far worse than what you perceive Ingrids attacks to be.

319   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:49 am

And by the way (not that it matters)

You lie about Ingrid…likely out of ignorance.

She is not Lutheran. (not that it matters)

320   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:49 am

“That to me is far worse than what you perceive Ingrids attacks to be.”

That, my friend, sums it all up. In the words of the Princess Bride:

“We are at an impasse”.

(But be assured, I know where the poison is and it isn’t on this blog)

321   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 11:51 am

People agree with the OP, and go on to attack Ingrid on an unrelated topic.

How is that any different than what you say she does?

The thing is divorce and remarriage isn’t an unrelated topic, especially when it’s concerning someone who has appointed herself the watchdog of the church. If he wants to hold people to a standard of moral perfection, than she herself should exhibit that standard in her own life.

Personally, I don’t think divorce and remarriage is the unpardonable sin, but I do believe it has severe and painful consequences. To me it is somewhat of a distraction, but the point is how can someone like Ingrid hold someone like Ted Haggard’s feet to the the fire and exhibit so little in the way of grace, when she is willing to overlook other people’s offenses in the same areas. Her standard is completely arbitrary and self-serving.

I know I’m just wasting time answering you, though, because you have made up your mind already to stand with those who attack the church. It’s your right of course, but I would rather err on the side of grace. Those who live by legalism will die by it.

322   chris    
February 13th, 2009 at 11:54 am

I don’t agree with the OP, but I do not attack Neil personally.

People agree with the OP, and go on to attack Ingrid on an unrelated topic.

How is that any different than what you say she does?

Let me type slowly…

Ingrid is being judged by the same measure in which she judges. This is a biblical concept.

The original challenge came to you in your defense of Ingrid. It was asked, rightfully, why you don’t have the same issue with Ingrid as you do with Haggard? To which you began the downward spiral of “Hey you guys do it too”.

This is not complicated. Is Ingrid’s divorce out of bounds? Maybe. I would say that when one acts like a Pharisee (see white washed tomb, clean on the outside, burdens that they don’t help to lift, etc…) they should not be surprised when it’s pointed out that “Hey you sin/sinned too”. Mind you with much less of the mind numbing, vitriolic, adjectives.

323   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:00 pm

She is not Lutheran. (not that it matters)

Ingrid is indeed Lutheran – she’s mentioned it several times and on her other blog. It’s pretty much common knowledge…

324   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
if he wants to hold people to a standard of moral perfection, than she herself should exhibit that standard in her own life.

Straw man.

Ingrid is being judged by the same measure in which she judges. This is a biblical concept.

Who is supposed to do the judging? In that passage, it is God who will judge those who judge wrongly.

Ted Haggard’s feet to the the fire and exhibit so little in the way of grace, when she is willing to overlook other people’s offenses in the same areas.

She was going after Haggard for being divorced? I must have read the wrong article. I thought she was going after him (as I pointed out) for attacking the ‘Religious Right’ and going on a press junket to proclaim that he has repented and demonstrating thus by going after the rotten people who have too high a moral standard.

325   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:02 pm

Ingrid is as Lutheran as I am Episcopalian.

I was baptized and confirmed that way. My mother believes that I am. But I am not.

I have been assured she is not (not that it matters)

326   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:03 pm

Haggard’s wife’s forgiveness, and their continuing commitment to each other, is an open testimony to the power of Christ in a world that has little value for marriage.

327   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:07 pm

I was baptized and confirmed as a lost Lutheran. Who cares? There are a lot of Lutherans in Ingrid’s neck of the woods. Some of them have dropped the word Lutheran, but they still practice as do some Lutherans.

328   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:11 pm

Who is supposed to do the judging? In that passage, it is God who will judge those who judge wrongly.

Exactly… someone should inform Ingrid and the other heresy hunters of that fact.

She was going after Haggard for being divorced? I must have read the wrong article. I thought she was going after him (as I pointed out) for attacking the ‘Religious Right’ and going on a press junket to proclaim that he has repented and demonstrating thus by going after the rotten people who have too high a moral standard.

Pretend to be smart, OK. Haggard isn’t divorced, but he did commit a sin that’s a moral failure. I don’t know all the details of Ingrid’s divorce, and I don’t want to, but for someone who has experienced moral failure of her own (we all have) she is exhibiting no grace in her treatment of Haggard. Haggard isn’t “going after” anybody. Repeating a lie again doesn’t make it true.

329   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:12 pm

I don’t agree with the OP… – PB

That’s enough for me… not that I care that you disagrees with me per se… but that you can in any way defend that post of Ingrid’s.

I find it frightening really.

330   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:12 pm

I was baptized as a Lutheran, I went to a Christian and Missionary Alliance school, I was ordained Southern Baptist, and I have read one of Rob Bell’s books.

I am the consummate expert on all things spiritual!!

331   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:14 pm

In that passage, it is God who will judge those who judge wrongly.

That doesn’t seem to matter when it comes to goats and sheep – so why should it matter now?

332   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:15 pm

The only point I was making about Ingrid being Lutheran is that using her same GBA standards, she should condemn herself for having ties with such a spiritually dead institution. She’s certainly condemned others with much less evidence.

333   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:16 pm

…going after the rotten people who have too high a moral standard. – PB

Yeah – you must have read something different…

334   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:17 pm

Haggard is going after the religious right (whoever that is)

At least, that is how I read the article. Words mean things, even in this ‘post modern’ era.

335   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:18 pm

Words mean things, even in this ‘post modern’ era.

Apparently they mean whatever you twist them to mean in your head…

336   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:18 pm

Any believer who cannot see a distinct problem with reconciling Ingrid’s words with the Spirit of God has a skewed view of Christianity.

Rick Frueh circa A.D. 2009

337   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:20 pm

And when all is said and done, Ingrid’s anger was political not biblical… though she often times confuses the two.

338   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:21 pm

# 335

no, I am not an emergent, Phil.

I go for the literal and historical interpretation of the Bible….and of the Newspaper.

339   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:24 pm

Haggard is going after the religious right (whoever that is)

At least, that is how I read the article. Words mean things, even in this ‘post modern’ era.

Thanks Cap’t Obvious… but what you said was he was going after people who had “too high a moral standard.” Which is different.

Haggard denounced the Religious Right based on their methods, methods he used to employ but now he sees as too extreme. And you twist this into an ad hominem saying he’s attacking them because they have higher morals.

SHAME!

340   Phil Miller    http://pmwords.blogspot.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:25 pm

By the way, I think we’ve answered Neil’s question in this thread. Can God be embarrassed? After seeing the willingness of some in this thread to justify the attack of a wounded brother, I think the answer is resoundingly “yes”…

341   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:25 pm

I’m beginning to hate everyone! :cool:

342   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:29 pm

I wonder which he’s embarrassed by more – the fallen pastor who then repents… or the attacking sister who sees no sin in her behavior.

343   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:30 pm

And when all is said and done, Ingrid’s anger was political not biblical… though she often times confuses the two.

344   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:33 pm

Pastorboy,

Your ability to discern the hearts of other knows no bounds… and I have never seen you address this.

Does it not bother you at all to assign motivations that you have no way of knowing? Hoe can you day he’s only out for the attention? How can you say he’s attacking because “they” have a higher moral standard?

How can you look into a man’s heart and know his thoughts.

345   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 12:34 pm

#301 – OK… I give up. You have become a caricature in and of yourself.

We are not arguing Arminianism vs Calvinism… and for every verse one side posts the other has a response…

You know what I mean when I reference being sensitive to seekers, yet you choose to obfuscate the discussion.

346   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 13th, 2009 at 12:34 pm

I wonder which he’s embarrassed by more – the fallen pastor who then ‘repents’ and proclaims his repentance to the world by going after people who he used to be a part of…and demonstrates his repentance through television, newspaper, and lectures, and justifies his sin by a supposed sexual assault by another man, and shows that the has not been changed because he describes his sexuality as undefined.. or the attacking sister who sees no sin in her behavior.

There…fixed it. I wonder also.

347   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 2:12 pm

344 followed by 346

OK – apparently your willingness to assign motives, judge the validity of someone’s repentance, and the belief you have access to the inner working of another person’s heart… has no bounds…

…or shame.

348   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 2:24 pm

…and shows that the has not been changed because he describes his sexuality as undefined – PB

I’ll ignore the non-sequitor between repentance and descriptions of sexuality in this statement since the statement itself is apparently false.

From the Christian Post article:

The fallen pastor, who now describes himself as a “heterosexual with issues,” says he still struggles with his sexuality, but that his marriage is now stronger than ever.

349   Neil    
February 13th, 2009 at 2:30 pm

Apparently, continuing to struggle with any temptation is a sign your repentance should be assumed false.

Apparently, learning from your mistakes and criticizing (not attacking) your former colleagues still making those mistakes is a sign you are not biblical and that you dislike their morality.

That is what I have learned from Ingrid and Pastorboy,

350   nc    
February 13th, 2009 at 3:00 pm

PB,

Pointing out bad behavior by Ingrid isn’t “personal attacks”…no matter how much you insist otherwise.

Her sin in this matter is apparent.

Asking for justification for it, especially in light of actual facts about her concrete behavior is not attacking. It’s taking the clear reality of what she has done and is doing and addresses it.

Taken to it’s logical conclusion, your attitude about this must mean that all criticism is “personal” and a form of “hate filled attack”….and therefore should probably stop altogether.

In that case…

You first, then the ODM’s, and then there’s no reason for us to remain.

Until then I suspect this site will not lay down so that you can all go on glorifying yourselves with your ministry of anger.

351   nc    
February 13th, 2009 at 3:04 pm

PB,

why is it so hard for you to see the difference between accusations about people’s hearts and minds (ingrid) vs. deserved criticism of actual behaviors (this site)?

I mean, “yes or no”, is Ingrid’s piece as honoring to God and the kind of witness to the Gospel that you would want to be identified with?

Is that rhetoric acceptable, in the name of God?

I’m asking to understand in the light of her and your self-professed standards.

352   wilson    
February 14th, 2009 at 10:05 am

hey guys, interesting thread here. Maybe you could start up a sister site called Slice of Slice of Laodicea. There are more than enough posts here for a whole other website! Not sure if that’s a compliment or not. Just an observation.

Rick, I liked your #2 post. A lot of wisdom there. A lot more than SoL it seems. Thanks for posting the Larry King transcript too. I haven’t seen the TH interview or documentary. What I will say is there are many harsh words on SoL, a little lacking in grace. It seems it’s very difficult to comment on motivation so maybe Ingrid could stay away from that. Sometimes she gets it right, but on this occasion her post had no space for Ted’s repentance, when we always need to hope and pray for others’ repentance…and our own repentance too!

353   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 14th, 2009 at 10:11 am

I mean, “yes or no”, is Ingrid’s piece as honoring to God and the kind of witness to the Gospel that you would want to be identified with?

I guess more so than the fawning that the media is doing over Ted Haggard at this time, feeding an insatiable desire to tear down Christianity in this country by showing the negative results of a lifestyle that was supposedly turned over to Christ.

It is my ultimate hope, of course, that he does experience true repentance, true redemption, and that he would disappear and walk humbly with his God. I echo the sentiments of Ted Ted go away, but only insofar as it pertains to the idea that he would leave the spotlight and the microphone and submit himself to the restoration work of a local church under a board of elders and live a quiet and peaceful life.

354   Neil    
February 14th, 2009 at 10:45 am
I mean, “yes or no”, is Ingrid’s piece as honoring to God and the kind of witness to the Gospel that you would want to be identified with? – nc

I guess more so than the fawning that the media is doing over Ted Haggard at this time, feeding an insatiable desire to tear down Christianity in this country by showing the negative results of a lifestyle that was supposedly turned over to Christ. – PB

Some comparison… she’s better than a bunch of unbelievers attacking Christianity – though I disagree.

The behavior of the media in tearing down Christianity may be more extreme and far-reaching. But they are unbelievers attacking what they do not understand.

When asked if Ingrid’s behavior is honoring to God and the kind of witness to the Gospel that you would want to be identified with – you respond by saying it’s better than a bunch of non-Christians?

Shoot – we expect these kind of attacks from the lost… But Ingrid doesn’t get that pass.

355   Neil    
February 14th, 2009 at 10:47 am

It is my ultimate hope, of course, that [Haggard] does experience true repentance, true redemption…

cf. #347

356   Pastorboy    http://crninfo.wordpress.com
February 14th, 2009 at 10:55 am

Neil,

But you miss the point…Haggard gave them fuel for these attacks by his behavior. He is giving them more fuel on His current media tour, even joining in on the attacks. I argue that the fruit of repentance is grace, and grace that is extended outward- even to those who he believes he has excoriated.

357   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 14th, 2009 at 11:00 am

Read the Larry King interview and see if it meets the “fawning” criteria. Playing a tape of the young man in his former church detailing Haggard’s private behavior with him in front of his wife, his son, and millions of people hardly qualifies as Fawning.

by showing the negative results of a lifestyle that was supposedly turned over to Christ.

Pretty much like God publicizing the many, many sins in the church of Corinth that supposedly was turned over to Christ. Why God would include that in His Word forever is confounding, unless He wanted to show how redemptive He really is. :cool:

358   Bo Diaz    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:02 am

…submit himself to the restoration work of a local church under a board of elders and live a quiet and peaceful life.

Considering all the respect you show for local churches and their boards of elders I’m going to assume this was an understated joke on your part.

Lets review a bit shall we?

Ted Haggard criticizes the religious right its because he hasn’t experienced the grace of God. Ingrid criticizes the church, and its because she has experienced the grace of God.

Ted Haggard needs to go away and live a peaceful life away from any sort of public statement because he has sinned. Ingrid and Steve Camp have divorced, and they need to continue their public ministries that consist of usurping the role of the local church and the boards of elders.

And the reason why you won’t dare to rebuke Ingrid or Steve is because they’re not a part of your church. But the reason why you will publicly rebuke Ted Haggard is because…. oh right, because…. why is it again?

Your reasoning is as poor as your theology.

359   Bo Diaz    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:05 am

But you miss the point…Haggard gave them fuel for these attacks by his behavior. He is giving them more fuel on His current media tour, even joining in on the attacks. I argue that the fruit of repentance is grace, and grace that is extended outward- even to those who he believes he has excoriated.

So how much grace have you shown to Rob Bell, Rick Warren, the writers of this site, or anyone else you’ve written about?

360   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 14th, 2009 at 11:11 am

Haggard is under the authority of the church leadership of Tommy Barnett I believe. He mentioned that so they must be blamed.

361   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 14th, 2009 at 11:12 am

Tommy Barnett is pastor of an AG church in Phoenix.

362   Neil    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:15 am

But you miss the point…Haggard gave them fuel for these attacks by his behavior. He is giving them more fuel on His current media tour, even joining in on the attacks. I argue that the fruit of repentance is grace, and grace that is extended outward- even to those who he believes he has excoriated.

I do not miss your point – I disagree with it. You responded to a question on Ingrid’s behavior by saying she’s better than the non-Christian media… some endorsement.

You may say you are arguing about the fruit of repentance – but what you actual said was that you hope he experiences “true repentance” which mean you assume he has not up to this point – (insert comment #347).

Finally, you confuse politics and Christianity just as Ingrid did. You accuse Haggard of attacking Christianity (based on is lack of morals – insert #347 AGAIN) – yet what he attacked was the political involvement of some Christians.

One of the biggest problems facing American Evangelicalism today is NOT the so called circus-churches… it’s those who think the kingdom is a battle to be won in the courts and Congress.

363   Bo Diaz    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:16 am

Haggard is under the authority of the church leadership of Tommy Barnett I believe. He mentioned that so they must be blamed.

It doesn’t matter. The ADMs don’t actually care about the local church. Its just what they pretend to care about when they have to come up with something other than an attack.

Its been demonstrated that Pastor Boy isn’t actually reacting from any sort of scriptural basis, he’s just making it up as he goes along based on whether he agrees with someone or not. If he agrees with you you can do and say whatever you want to and its “grace filled and holy” and if you don’t then nothing will ever be good enough.

364   Joe    http://www.joemartino.name
February 14th, 2009 at 11:20 am

But you miss the point…Haggard gave them fuel for these attacks by his behavior. He is giving them more fuel on His current media tour, even joining in on the attacks. I argue that the fruit of repentance is grace, and grace that is extended outward- even to those who he believes he has excoriated.

Haha! Again, this is what Satan does with “fuel” for attacks. It is not what God or Jesus does.

The people that you are defending look more like the Enemy they claim to be fighting against than they do the King they claim to be fighting for.

“The accuser of the brethren” shall be known by his/her blog….

365   Neil    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:21 am

And once again let me say – even if Haggard did as Pastorboy thinking – this has no merit in excusing Ingrid’s post.

She assumes he want s to explore deviant sexuality.
She thinks addressing the errors of the religious Right is tantamount to denying the Bible.
She called him a socio-path.

These comments cannot/ should not be defended. She should repent of these comments and address any issues she has with haggard in a civil, Christlike, gracious manner.

366   Neil    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:23 am

It doesn’t matter. The ADMs don’t actually care about the local church. Its just what they pretend to care about when they have to come up with something other than an attack.

I believe they do care about the local church. As I have said to Pastorboy, we should be careful in assigning thoughts and motives.

367   Bo Diaz    
February 14th, 2009 at 11:26 am

I believe they do care about the local church.

Really? All I see them doing is ravaging it.

368   Rick Frueh    http://http?//followingjudahslion.com
February 14th, 2009 at 11:26 am

So let’s get this straight, a man gets caught in immorality and is brought way down low. He confesses and repents of not only the sex, but he realizes how he was blind in other areas. And so now he has a perspective that could be valuable, but he shouldn’t share it?

Don’t former drug addicts share about the harmful effects of drugs? I really believe that many believers are not satified until