In the recent post The Sexuality Obsession, there has been a heated debate over the issue of a Christian’s role in legislating morality. Ingrid wrote

I’m amazed at those who make the statement that you can’t legislate morality. Someone’s morality is always legislated, the question is always, whose? Right now the morality of the child-killers has been codified into law. We have 50 million dead babies because of this. Chattel slavery was the morality codified into law here in the United States and in Great Britain. It took a William Wilberforce, a Christian, to spearheaded moral opposition that changed the law (politics, Henry) to free blacks in England and a civil war to end it here in America where Christians had made peace with slavery.

All I want to say is that fighting for basic rights that all humanity should have (life, freedom, food, etc.) is one thing. Fighting for all humanity to act as we would like them to is a whole other ballgame. Calling for humans to not be sold as property is not the same as calling for everyone to have sex as we would like them to. Ending the genocide in Europe is not the same as fighting for our morals to be made laws in America. We Christians in the United States fight so hard for our moral freedom. But, as soon as someone else wants to exercise their moral freedom, not even asking for us to curb our beliefs, we react with vicious words and actions.

Look, I believe the scriptures. I believe that homosexuality is a destructive and ultimately godless lifestyle. I believe that having sex inside the context of heterosexual marriage is the only acceptable context for it. I believe that God longs for people to honor His instructions for sexual practices. However, I also believe that adultery is biblically wrong. I believe that marriage is exclusively between one man and one woman for life. I also know that more people commit adultery in America (14-22%) than live homosexual lifestyles (1-3%). If we are so concerned about legislating our sexual morality, why are we not strengthening the marriage contract? Why are we not fighting for making adultery illegal? Of course, we can’t stop there in being the moral majority. We will have to make it illegal to not attend church. We will have to enforce coveting with the law enforcement. We can force people to give 10% of their income to the church.

If we are going to be the group who controls everyone’s morality thru the government, we have to think thru the long term ramifications. Are we really called to do this? Or, are we just picking and choosing our battles to keep our comfort levels at their peak?

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1   Evan Hurst    
February 25th, 2008 at 8:10 pm

i would make one comment about one thing here:

i’m pro-choice. that does not mean “babykiller.”

i’m pro-choice because i’m pragmatic. do i think abortion is heinous? yes. did abortion exist before it was legal? yes. would abortion still exist if it weren’t legal? yes. it would happen illegally, many times under dangerous circumstances, and it would exist in Canada, and it would exist in Mexico, etc. would making abortion illegal do ANYTHING to address the root causes which cause young women (many of them impoverished and uneducated) to find themselves in the situation where they have to choose whether or not to carry a baby to term?

NO!

consider:
it has been proven that pro-choice POLICIES, with their accompanying focus on education and economic issues, do FAR more to reduce the number of abortions in the United States than pro-life policies.

this, to me, is the problem with the entire debate over abortion in this country: it’s framed in an intellectually dishonest way by both sides.

the pro-lifers carelessly throw around terms like “baby-killers” which do nothing more than incite the emotions of people who agree with them.

the pro-choicers are guilty of focusing the argument far too much on the right of a woman to do with her body as she pleases, and end up looking callous, or even EVIL (boo!) in the eyes of the pro-lifers.

it’s all so phenomenally childish.

2   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 25th, 2008 at 8:22 pm

Evan – I appreciate your respectful participation and thoughtful comments. I would suggest, if you haven’t guessed already, that although people like me reject some of the tactics used by my brothers, I believe that Jesus is the only way to eternal life and morality either way without Christ is a fraud. If you are gay I do not consider your sin any greater than mine, but I consider Jesus the “scapegoat” for all of our sin.

Nathan – I just cannot believe the complaining that Ingrid does. How can you justify complaining about lost people? How can you “nationalize” your world view at the expense of the “fields” as our Savior put it? As I said on the other thread, those in darkness need the light and those with the light should not complain about darkness.

Getting caught in a traffic jam because of some gay pride parade will never equal what Christ did for us who were every bit as sinful as they are. Can you imagine the missionaries complaining about the sinfulness of those to whom they are sent? The probelm is we don’t see these people as objects of God’s redemptive love, we see them as blockades to enjoying the American dream and in reality many see them as expendable thorns.

And if someone hands them a tract or “gives the gospel” he acts as if that justifies his condemning rhetoric. Jesus wept over Jerusalem, we weep over the price of gasoline.

3   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 25th, 2008 at 8:30 pm

Let us also make mention that the ecclesiaistical/political efforts concerning abortion, Nazi, and slavery issues were all done to intercede for oppressed people. The gay issue seems to be about adding oppression.

4   Evan Hurst    
February 25th, 2008 at 8:31 pm

oh, i definitely understand where you’re coming from, and though i don’t always agree with them, i find your sentiments to be noble.

this is one of those things…in the other thread you were talking about whether Christians should be politically involved. i would suggest that we all have the right to be politically involved, but it’s best to keep faith/religion in one place and refrain from injecting our moral “ideals” into the political conversation, because different ideals just clash with each other and, in the end, none of the actual problems, the political issues at hand, actually get solved. but everybody in the fight is convinced they’re right, by God.

hence: pragmatism in the political sphere.

5   Evan Hurst    
February 25th, 2008 at 8:32 pm

oh wow, breathtaking…i couldn’t have said that better myself.

6   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 25th, 2008 at 8:43 pm

There are a number of countries that do legislate morality. One good hard look at them at the teacher who was almost put to death for naming a teddy bear the wrong name should be just enough example why we cannot legislate morality.

The list of things that are illegal in countries that legislate morality is long. The punishments harsh and freedom limited.

The reason not to legislate morality is to maintain freedom.

7   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 25th, 2008 at 9:16 pm

This entire discussion inspired this:

Do we as Christians see people’s deeds or their needs?

http://judahslion.blogspot.com/2008/02/needs-or-deeds-d-o-you-see-deeds-or.html

8   nathan    http://www.nathanneighbour.com
February 25th, 2008 at 9:31 pm

This is the problem with the church today. We have become so self serving. It’s not enough that we have created the church to now meet OUR needs, we want the nation to meet OUR needs. We don’t think “how can I serve the Gay community to show Christ’s love?” We think “how can I make our nation more comfortable for me?”

We should see the church as the redemptive agent in the world (i.e. we exist to change the world). We should see the nation, and all her lost people, as a serving ground. It is a place to serve, love and move people towards Christ.

9   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
February 25th, 2008 at 9:33 pm

The dumbest part of this is that they try to act like because I personally do not agree with them that I think people (of any sexual orientation) should be allowed to walk down the street nude, or perform sexual acts on each other. I don’t. And the vast majority of GLBT people that I know don’t either.

10   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 25th, 2008 at 9:35 pm

Rick,
Did I correctly gather from paragraph six of your article that you believe homosexuality is a choice people make? This sentence has me very curious, “Because of the media exposure and the approval of that lifestyle the numbers of homosexuals are increasing.”

Do you believe the media and current approval is “causing” more people to choose homosexuality?

J

11   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 25th, 2008 at 9:41 pm

I believe there are both. I think I made it clear that I believe some are born that way, but I also believe that when that lifstyle grows in acceptance it becomes an option. Some gay people have said that they chose it themselves.

Some people through domestic mistreatment when yound, or a deeply scarred self image, or other things contribute to them moving toward acceptance in the gay community. I am sure you’ve seen this, but there are many who are born that way as well.

12   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 25th, 2008 at 9:44 pm

Thank you for making that more clear for me.

13   Evan Hurst    
February 25th, 2008 at 9:54 pm

well, that’s a much longer discussion, but the science coming out tends to show that with men, it’s pretty fixed, but women may have a little more leeway (in both directions) than we previously understood.

and Joe, you’re right about the vast majority of GLBT people in that sense – and i would suggest that there is a major generation gap between older gay men and younger gay men. if you’ll notice, in the postings on “that” website, the ones that are meant to inflame hatred and disgust, that show nekkid people being naughty in public, you don’t see a lot of 18-30 yr olds. it’s not that 18-30 yr olds (of any sexual orientation) don’t do naughty nekkid things, but a positive outcome of the last couple of decades of increasing acceptance is that young people who happen to be gay conduct our lives much more like young people who happen to be straight, because we don’t come from that “underground” culture that persisted, in many ways, for centuries. so, obviously, there was a breaking out point, when things like pride parades started, where everything got, you know, like WAH! in your face or whatever. and sure, there are always going to be celebratory festivals/parades and the like where people go nuts, but gay people definitely don’t have that market cornered. (Mardi Gras, anyone?)

and as i said in the other thread, responding to Ingrid’s complaint about getting stuck downtown in the middle of one…you can see them coming for miles, first of all. and it’s not like it’s a secret when/where they happen.

i wouldn’t take kids to Mardi Gras, and i wouldn’t play dumb and act all offended if i just HAPPENED to be in New Orleans the weekend before Lent either. (or the last weekend of August.)

14   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 8:47 am

Ingrid says

I’m amazed at those who make the statement that you can’t legislate morality. Someone’s morality is always legislated, the question is always, whose? Right now the morality of the child-killers has been codified into law. We have 50 million dead babies because of this.

So now the church is a legislative body? And since when does God’s grace not use someone even if their methods are somewhat less than Biblibcal? (Wilberforce) I grow tired of the latent idol worship that lifts up men as the standard and not the Scriptures to which these people have given at least systematic allegience.

Martin Luther could not have even qualified as a deacon because of his temper, his drinking, and his rabid anti-semitism; Calvin’s crimes are well documented; and despite the sins of these men they and others are held up as examples of Scripture lived out and that we should interpret the Bible in light of their words and their actions.

I reject all men and embrace the Scriptures, and God has told me and you that no Scripture is of any private interpretation. They can throw Spurgeon, Calvin, Wesley, Wilberforce, MacArthur, Bell, MacLaren, or any other idolic figure and suggest that since they believed and practiced something it must be Scriptural. I reject that method of interpretation as mortally flawed and actually humanistic on some level.

It is time the church receives edification from the gifts of the Spirit through the conduits of earthen vessels, but God forbid we attach ourselves to any man and his views as absolute. Would some of those godly men of old have embraced slavery? No doubt.

Away with legislation forged on the anvil of political leverage, and in essence that is a transparent view into the bankruptcy of the spiritual power of Christ’s body today. The apostles had no such leverage neither did they seek it, and when brought before the governments of their day they neither championed some moral cause nor presented written petitions, no, they preached and embraced their Lord and Savior. That was their glory.

The Greeks invent a humanistic governmental system and call it democracy and the separated church whose eyes should be fixed upon their Master, loose their spiritual chains and go running after that which is one giant revolving door. And Ingrid, do you not believe people are in slavery today? Can you not see the invisible chains all over the world that keep people in bondange to their sin?

And do not think that when slavery was in force anywhere in the world that God’s hands were tied and He could do nothing. God forbid! Perhaps millions of slaves came to Christ in America who might have died lost in Africa. Perhaps Onesimus had never been saved had he been freed before he ran away and met Paul.

So making slavery illegal was s good thing horizontally speaking, but in the invisible and sovereign kingdom of God the Almighty still works his eternal plan regardless of the man made barriers. In 1732 two young Moravian missionaries set sail from Europe to sell themselves into slavery on St. Thomas so they could preach the gospel to the black slaves there who had no witness. They gave their entire lives to these poor slaves and assuradely many have found themselves in God’s presence because of the sacrifice of these godly men.

Do not speak to me of the “bravery” of men who are active politically and claim he has the tenacity of ten men because he has chosen to focus on men’s sins rather than their souls. God knows who His heroes are and we are not in that roll call. The observation about safely sitting behind a computer is the only substantive thing Ingrid had to say about this new and comfortable medium.

The gay community needs people like those two Moravian boys, and in reality there are those nameless servants who minister to them in an interactive way that goes much further than handing out tracts at bath houses. There are many believers both formerly in that lifestyle and those who God has given them a divine calling who hold those dying with AIDS, who eat with those who feel alone, who take in those who have been rejected by that same community, who cry with those gays who are depressed, and who visit them and help them while they are sick. And with those tangible deeds of God’s love they share the loving and saving gospel of Christ and assure each gay man and woman that Christ died for them. Those are God messengers, not the screeching voices of self righteous politics who vomit full throated contempt and that receive verbal accolades from the Christian Wrong (right).

Let us all weep over the grace that has been bestowed upon undeserving swine like ourselves, and weep for the plight of the poor and oppressed, both spiritually, emotionelly, physically, and at the hands and mouths of those who claim a divine mouthpiece from the ivory tower of loveless words.

And while hundreds of thousands of homosexuals are lonely and depressed, while some are contemplating suicide, while many are on a death march with AIDS, and while they are lost and hopeless, let us all beg God that we will not wind up in a traffic jam because of their parade. If that’s Christianity let me be a Hindu!!

15   shammah ben agee    http://endtheapostasy.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:00 am

So economic reform and education are the new Gospel.
This entire thread is evidence of what you are left with when you believe that men save men.
And you criticize man centered theology. What do you think your hyper arminainism is?

16   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:00 am

Rick,
your wrote: And while hundreds of thousands of homosexuals are lonely and depressed, while some are contemplating suicide, while many are on a death march with AIDS, and while they are lost and hopeless

I would like you to know what I am feeling as I read this. SInce I can’t speak for anybody but me. I want you to know I read this with my eyes rolling. Do you really think every gay person is lonely and depressed and ready to slash their wrists? I do understand that is one of the myths about being gay, but across the board most gays and lesbians are pretty happy, content and normal. Most of us don’t go to pride parades (i don’t) most of us don’t have aids (i have never even had an sti and I am almost 40 years old).

Why such the bleak picture?

17   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 9:15 am

Joe – statistics suggest otherwise, and I am sure there are gays as you portray, but it is no secret coming from the mouths of gay men and women that they have many struggles that are not proportional to the heterosexual community. That is what you got out of my comment?

18   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 9:18 am

Hyper-Arminainism?

What is “hyper” Arminainsism? That Christ dies for all Martians as well? Goofy.

What you mean is the well intentioned misuse of Arimianism that changes the message to accommodate and artificially draw the sinner. There, fixed.

19   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:19 am

I am confused Rick. I ahev the stats, I have read them. They say gays are about average in this stuff. WOuld you care to swap stats?

20   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 9:28 am

I have listened to many conferences by former gay men who paint a bleak picture but admit there those who assimilate into the culture quite nicely. I believe the suicide and depression statistics show a difference. And it is my opinion that the statistics are incomplete and that still many gay adults and teenagers live in that shadows.

If you are one who is well adjusted and happy then you are fortunate, however, that still does not address your view of Christ and spiritual standing. All of us, gay and straight, will one day die and give an account to God. My life would have condemned me but I no longer will present my life for inspection, I will present Christ’s.

And in the safety of our computer room, Christ is present.

21   Tim Reed, Owosso MI    http://churchvoices.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:38 am

So economic reform and education are the new Gospel.
This entire thread is evidence of what you are left with when you believe that men save men.

What? Did you miss that the only people who are advocating political reform are hyper-calvinist ODMs?

22   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 9:41 am

Tim – can you believe that? The entire article and most of the comments are against a Man centered (political) gospel and some still cannot remove the partisan blinders.

Strange…

23   dave    http://www.mindfulmission.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:42 am

I love how Ingrid uses William Wilberforce as a positive example.

Does she realize that Wilberforce didn’t just fight for slavery, but also other issues of social justice?

Imagine how Ingrid would respond if Brian McLaren or Jim Wallis started talking about animals’ right or animal cruelty.

24   shammah ben agee    http://endtheapostasy.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:03 am

I missed nothing. The problem is not odms or calvinists,it is this tribute to sophistry that you call a blog.
There are more papists,liberals,pomotypes,charismatic/evangelicals promoting the use of political solutions, than calvinists
If you want to see an end to sinful lifestyles, preach the Gospel.
I also stick to the use of the term hyper arminianism.
BTW Arminius is no one we should be following or admiring.
Your legalistic theology of relationship building,doing good deeds etc does not save men. It is a gospel that brings all attention to you, not Christ.
It is based on works,and is more in line with the roman catholic church than anything.

25   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:07 am

If you want to see an end to sinful lifestyles, preach the Gospel.

Well, this is basically what Nathan is saying. We can’t legislate America back to God. My only beef is that a lot of Christians definition of the Gospel is too narrow, but that another debate.

26   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
February 26th, 2008 at 10:18 am

Shammah,
What an incredible opportunity for you. You have discerned all of our ills and problems. Now, you can pray diligently for us. I mean after all, you are striving to follow the Bible, right?

27   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 10:20 am

I missed nothing. The problem is not odms or calvinists,it is this tribute to sophistry that you call a blog.
There are more papists,liberals,pomotypes,charismatic/evangelicals promoting the use of political solutions, than calvinists
If you want to see an end to sinful lifestyles, preach the Gospel.
I also stick to the use of the term hyper arminianism.
BTW Arminius is no one we should be following or admiring.
Your legalistic theology of relationship building,doing good deeds etc does not save men. It is a gospel that brings all attention to you, not Christ.
It is based on works,and is more in line with the roman catholic church than anything.

Are we still on for lunch?

28   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:23 am

shammah ben agee said:

Your legalistic theology of relationship building,doing good deeds etc does not save men.

James 1:27

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. 

Romans 12:17-18

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 

Poor, James and Paul, so mired in legalistic theology. Someone should’ve really set them straight.

29   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 10:28 am

The problem is not odms or calvinists,it is this tribute to sophistry that you call a blog.

Yes, hyperbole and condescention instead of passionate discourse with a “smidgen” of respect might be helpful. I am see another hyper in the blog world – hyperventalation.

30   Tim Reed, Owosso MI    http://churchvoices.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:31 am

Shammah ben agee offers yet another demonstration that ODMs have no ability to understand anyone who isn’t an ODM.

31   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 10:33 am

I knew Arminius. Arminius was a friend of mine. Shammah, you’re no Arminius!

32   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
February 26th, 2008 at 10:40 am

Well, The good news is that we can rip Galatians 2:10 out of the Bible. It says,

All they asked was that we should continue to remember the poor, the very thing I had been eager to do all along.

33   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 26th, 2008 at 12:14 pm

Nathan,

Can you show me in scripture where it says our job on earth is to change the world? I am not trying to pick a fight, but I am curious to know where that comes from. Or were you speaking in hyperbole?

Your friend as always,
Jerry

34   Evan Hurst    
February 26th, 2008 at 12:24 pm

back to the idea that most gays are depressed/whatever else:

1. “former” gays do not an accurate sampling make. also, i would suggest that former “former gays” tend to be some of the happiest.
2. the depression, or even suicidal tendencies that some experience are usually a direct result of “this is me vs. this is how society/my parents/my church views me – as less than human.” it’s a chicken-egg situation until one realizes that it’s really not.
3. add me to the list of “never been to a pride parade, never had an STD” as well. i’m almost 30.

i think that a mistake some people make re: gay people is to assume that most of us are crying out for help in some way, when, in actuality, we’re just going about our lives.

*shrug*

35   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 12:35 pm

I agree with your #2 assessment, but the results are still the same. My overriding point is that we should care regardless of why people hurt.

36   nathan    http://www.nathanneighbour.com
February 26th, 2008 at 12:52 pm

“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

If that doesn’t change the world, something is wrong.

37   shammah ben agee    http://endtheapostasy.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 2:47 pm

Do any of you actually understand the scriptures?
I said that good deeds and/or your befriending folks does not save them, nor does it save you.
The bible is written to believers.(That means those who already believe for the .info impaired) not those who belong before they believe.
Therefore the works that are prepared for the saints, Eph 2:10 the very same works that James speaks of, are the fruit of the life of the redeemed.
The scriptures you cite support this fact. Nowhere does Paul or James or Jesus say that when you give a loaf of bread to the hungry that they will come to faith in Jesus.
Faith comes by hearing the word, and man does not live by bread alone.
Now I will have to believe one of two things;
1. that you understand this, and willfully twist what has been stated (a distinct possibility here) or
2. you are all without understanding (another distinct possibility).
According to your neo legalist theology, the UN is bringing people to Christ.

Preach the gospel, if necessary use words…….right. lol!
Hey Rick I will buy lunch if I get to pick crow for you.

38   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 2:57 pm

shammah,
I am really confused to what you are even arguing with us about, really. We are the ones saying that it’s futile to expect to legislate moral issues, or expect politics to bring about true spiritual change. Saying that does not mean that we should just sit on our hands, though.

I was pointing out that the New Testament directs Christians to do good works – to help the poor, to feed the hungry, etc. It is not just an “extra” part of the Gospel – it is an essential part of it. We aren’t just told to bless Christians, we are told bless everyone. The Gospel is proclaiming Jesus is Lord of creation, and His Kingdom has been inaugurated, and it will be fully realized at His return.

Helping people, doing good, etc., are in a sense prophetic acts that point to the fully realized Kingdom where Creation where be renewed, God will wipe every tear away, and evil and death will breathe their last.

39   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 3:06 pm

I have heard no one here say that good deeds saves anyone. Your rhetoric obscures whatever issue you are addressing. No one is a legalist about salvation, but of course you have the right to interpret my words to suit your perseption.

By the way, if you feed the poor you, my friend, are a liberal!

40   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 26th, 2008 at 4:28 pm

Nathan,

Thanks for clarifying. It might be a semantic issue on my part that I don’t see the connection between that verse of Scripture and your statement. But I’ll agree to leave it alone.

Thanks again,
jerry

PS–I don’t think we can change the world.

41   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 4:35 pm

PS–I don’t think we can change the world.

I just don’t understand such fatalism. I guess on one hand, I do, because I used to say the same type of thing. We might be able to change the whole world, but we can certainly impact the world of some people. I know there are individuals who have impacted my life to such an extent that it wouldn’t be the same without them.

42   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 4:38 pm

PS–I don’t think we can change the world.

We can’t but Obama can! Yes we can!! Yes we can!!

43   Evan Hurst    
February 26th, 2008 at 4:43 pm

this is picky, but as an Obama supporter, i don’t think he’s saying HE can change the world.

he’s asking that we demand change, because nothing will ever change in Washington, they’ll never stop promoting the policies of “No CEO/Mercenary Outfit Left Behind” unless we pull our heads out of you-know-where and absolutely demand that change as a society.

otherwise, the slogan would be “Yes, I Can,” wouldn’t it?

:)

44   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 4:54 pm

I love election years. The pageantry, the shwashbuckling speeches, the attacks, the bravado, obscene amounts of money, the flip-flops, the lies, the innuendos, the entire thing is a voyeur’s dream!

The strategies, the counter-punches, the hypocrisy, the championing of the poor, the resume padding, the scandals, all of it is so professional wrestling-esque, entertaining but not real.

The debates, the families, the mulitple wives, the affairs, the denials, the backroom deals, the smoke-filled rooms, the photo-opts, and the appearances on Saturday Night Live.

Even the primaries have morphed into great fanfare and a legitimate spectator sport! And when you don’t have a dog in this fight you can root for the most detestible, hateful, and vicious verbal mud wrestling imaginable.

I LOVE THIS GAME!!!

45   Evan Hurst    
February 26th, 2008 at 5:12 pm

so i guess you’re rooting for Hillary…

*grin*

it is fun, actually.

46   nathan    http://www.nathanneighbour.com
February 26th, 2008 at 5:41 pm

I don’t think we can change the world.

sure you do. You have a blog. I suspect that you believe you have the power to influence, teach or instruct with that blog. You post sermons, thoughts, idea, graduate papers… many things to have an impact on people.

Let’s say that one person changes their ideas about God because of your blog. If it is possible to change the ideology of one person, is it not possible to change the ideology and ultimately the hearts of everyone? What if you influenced the next Billy Graham with your blog, and they went on to be the most influential believer of our time… did you not play a small part in changing the world.

If people like Hitler, Billy Graham, George Bush etc. can change the world, we can too.

47   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 5:56 pm

sure you do. You have a blog.

I am so envious of that naiveté, does it come in pill form? I think the script reads “things will get worse and worse. Unless there’s been a change…

And the blog thing…let’s not get carried away.

48   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 6:11 pm

I think the script reads “things will get worse and worse.

Nope. There’s no script.

49   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 6:15 pm

Phil, you didn’t get the **update**?

Perilous times, my friend, perilous times.

50   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 6:15 pm

Shammah,

BTW Arminius is no one we should be following or admiring.

This shows you lack of understanding of Arminius… as he agreed with Calvin on almost every point except for Calvin’s “certainty”. Much that is attributed to Arminianism was not what Arminius actually taught… just as much that many Calvinist push (the immortality of man/the focus on predestination) was not what Calvin taught or was as focused on.

Before you make you assertions, maybe take a little church history… Covnenatn Theological Seminary has some really good free courses that you can take. The history teacher, David Calhoun is a Calvinist, yet I see his teaching as pretty balanced and fair to those he even disagrees with.

Really, some historical perspective helps…

iggy

51   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 6:24 pm

BTW – I don’t follow or admire Arminius. Never met the man.

52   nathan    http://www.nathanneighbour.com
February 26th, 2008 at 6:59 pm

Rick,

the fact is that we all believe that we can have some impact on the world, or none of us would do what we do. I am not saying that you are going to change the world thru a blog. But, it is proof that people believe they can influence and impact people with their life.

53   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 7:10 pm

Nathan – We are bloggers, nothing more and sometimes much less. In all seriousness I admire your zeal and vision, but it is my opinion that the servants who would substantially impact the world must leave homes and families and lands and plant themselves in some uncomfortable and sometimes dangerous gardens where lost and forlorn people dwell in darkness.

There are many such servants whose names are unknown to most and who have no time such as we to sit and discourse. I hold them in high esteem even though the world and much of the church holds comfortable book writers and conference holders and cruise sponsorers and yes, bloggers in admiration.

I hold no delusion about my own importance, and I have impacted my children and some scores of others, but I am no champion, just an unprofitable servant of the Most High God, as are you. Perhaps God will use you one day in the proportion of your expansive vision. I pray He will.

54   nathan    http://www.nathanneighbour.com
February 26th, 2008 at 7:31 pm

Rick,

You consider yourself unprofitable in your endeavors? That is sad to me. I think that I am having an impact on my community, my family, my friends. I would hope to think that my life makes some difference in how others live.

55   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 7:45 pm

Lk.17:7-10 – But which of you, having a servant plowing or feeding cattle, will say unto him by and by, when he is come from the field, Go and sit down to meat? And will not rather say unto him, Make ready wherewith I may sup, and gird thyself, and serve me, till I have eaten and drunken; and afterward thou shalt eat and drink? Doth he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I trow not. So likewise ye, when ye shall have done all those things which are commanded you, say, We are unprofitable servants: we have done that which was our duty to do.

I am as He says.

56   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 26th, 2008 at 8:10 pm

Phil,

It is not fatalism. It is reality. The world is not going to get better all the time–regardless of how many people you feed, or how much Gospel you preach. The world will continue to get worse, and worse, and worse. Have you read Revelation? Or the daily paper? Or your horoscope? :)

Look, I think that the Gospel has made a lot inroads in our world. I think the Kingdom has been breaking out since Jesus walked on earth. I think the disciples turned the world upside down–but we are far removed from them, their theology, and their point of view. I think the Gospel is great news for those whom it saves, but I think all in all, the Bible is a terribly depressing report about the state of the world and the final reality of those not saved.

Rick–with all due respect, I don’t understand where you are coming from or what you are saying. I cannot tell if you are being serious or sarcastic or what.

Nathan,

I understand well what you are saying, I just don’t agree with it. I’m not naive or smart enough to think that my blog, which is blessed to have 100-200 page views a day (out of the 5 billion inhabitants of earth), is making the difference in anyone’s life. It is a hobby that I’m not really very good at. More often than not, I simply irritate people who hold to views that are different from my own. I don’t think the world is being saved because of blogs. In fact, the world my be even worse because of blogs. (Some of them anyhow, ;) )

You know what, before I can ever hope that I can even think about being used by God to make even a ripple in this cess-pool I have to change myself. I have been preaching in a local church for 12 years. I’m not fatalistic; I am realistic.

When I say it is a semantic difference I mean this. I am not interested in changing the world. I am interested in glorifiying God (1 Peter 2:1-5, 9-10). God will certainly use some people to change the world, but not most or many. Then again, ‘impact’ is a cheap word isn’t it?

Remember the very first ever episode of Star Wars? Episode IV: A New Hope? At the end, Luke had to destroy the Death Star with proton torpedos. He flew into the trench and is pummeled by tie-fighters, and cannons, and his nerves. He fires the first torpedo and it misses the exhaust port. He was relying on the telescoping device, and all kinds of gadgets, and gizmos–all sorts of technology. He misses and says, “No, It only impacted on the surface.”

With his second trip down the trench, he turned off all the gizmos and relied soley on the George Lucas version of God, the Force, and he nailed it! The torpedos went into the exhaust port and the Death Star exploded. Surface impacts have very little effect on this world that we live in–and at least to Lucas, they don’t defeat evil. That is the reality of things.

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe I’m skeptical. Maybe I’m cynical. But I’m not certain exactly what sort of changes in this world you think are happening, but I don’t see them. People still get sick. People still die. And the kids I work with for 2.5 hours a day, 5 days per week? Well, they still have divorced parents. Abusive parents. Jailed parents. The kids still do drugs. Sill have sex. They still steal milk when they can. They talk like liberal democrats ( :) ). They fight. They are vulgar. They are still being taught to deny Christ and affirm Darwin. What does it mean when 6th and 7th graders already ‘know’ they are homosexuals? Seriously? What the hell does that mean? Their parents send them to school without money for lunch or without lunch.

Change. Pshaw! This world isn’t going to change until the day when Christ returns. Sorry to ruin an otherwise wonderful reputation among you folks who have been so kind to my opposing point of view, but I just don’t see a better world being our main ambition. It’s more like survival for an idea that is passing quickly and being persecuted often. “Welcome to the real world, Neo.” Who will rescue us? Thanks be to God for Jesus Christ. I think Jesus is the only one who is going to change anything, and frankly, He is become scarcer and scarcer in the church, let alone the world we hope to change.

Auf Wiedersehen!
jerry

57   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 8:36 pm

I am serious about humility, Jerry. By the way, I am German and one of my brothers is a German citizen who lives near Munich. My last name used to be spelled Fruh with an umlaut over the “u”, but when my family moved to America they changed it to Frueh (early) so people could pronounce it (which they usually do not).

Pray for my brother, he is not saved. (Joe)

58   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 8:54 pm

I have enjoyed reading this thread and feel sad that so many feel that the world cannot be changed. As a certified nonviolence trainer, I have seen the evidence the world can be changed.

Gandhi, one man manged to convince 300,000 Indians to use nonviolent means to free themselves from British rule.

The current population of the world is roughly 6 billion people.

So, how many Gandhi’s would we need to start taking a stand to create peace you ask? well do the math…..

6 billion divided by 300,000?

Then we move on to King.

One man managed to motivated an entire city to walk miles, carpool at the danger of jail, and taxi their way around just to protest the injustice not of segregated buses. The Montgomery Improvement Association was not boycotting the buses to desegregate them, they simply asked for a more dignified way to get on and off the bus. In the end, they got more then they asked for.

One man, led them in that movement.

One person can change the world…..I have seen it!

59   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 26th, 2008 at 8:58 pm

Joe,

That’s not the sort of change that I am talking about. Ghandi did nothing to bring glory to Christ and neither did King. Oh, they did nice things to be sure, but what is freedom from British rule without the presence of Christ. Ghandi rejected Christ.

“One man come, in the name of love…” Yeah, I get it. Bono for president.

Still not convinced the world can be changed,
jerry

60   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:10 pm

Jerry,
You bring up a good point that for me were parts of the last straw in my beliefs. I struggled with the idea of seeing the world in such dark ways. “What is Freedom form British rule without Christ?” is a tough question. I feel pain when I hear it. Millions of people in the world have never heard of Christ and their lives are just as beautiful and amazing as could be. Just the fact we are here at all is amazing to me.

There are billions and billion of galaxies in the Universe and here we are alive and breathing. That is all the change I need to be amazed and happy. The world isn’t the fallen world you see, it is an amazing place of endless wonders.

I am sad at what I see in the middle east. The death and destruction and loss of life over how to worship god is painful to watch. I am sad at the pollution, sad at the murder, very angry with the gun violence that is glorified on tv and movies. I feel pain every time I see another young one take a gun to school and start shooting.

Past the downfalls the world is just like a growing tree, as the dead leaves fall new ones are right behind them keeping them beautiful.

61   mandy reed, owosso mi    
February 26th, 2008 at 9:10 pm

Jerry,
Your comments make me sad for you. that you think you’re not making a difference.

62   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:13 pm

This fits:

Once a man was walking along a beach. The sun was shining and it was a beautiful day. Off in the distance he could see a person going back and forth between the surf’s edge and and the beach. Back and forth this person went. As the man approached he could see that there were hundreds of starfish stranded on the sand as the result of the natural action of the tide.

The man was stuck by the the apparent futility of the task. There were far too many starfish. Many of them were sure to perish. As he approached the person continued the task of picking up starfish one by one and throwing them into the surf.

As he came up to the person he said, “You must be crazy. There are thousands of miles of beach covered with starfish. You can’t possibly make a difference.” The person looked at the man. He then stooped down and pick up one more starfish and threw it back into the ocean. He turned back to the man and said, “It sure made a difference to that one!”

http://www.cedu.niu.edu/~fulmer/starfish.htm

63   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:20 pm

Jerry,
It seems you’ve bought somewhat into some of the dualistic though that has permeated Western culture. What Ghandi did was good, even if he was operating with some wrong ideas and motives. God used it to effect more people than we know.

I not naive enough to believe that we can bring about some sort of Post-Millenial utopia, and I’m not even saying that as a whole the world will get better through progress. I’m just saying that Christians should strive to stop injustice, cure disease, and help poor people wherever we see it. To sit still and say “the poor will we will always have” is not acceptable. I’m comfortable enough to take action in what I can and trust God with the ultimate results.

I believe that God created the Earth and said it was good, and it His intention to one restore His creation. Anything we do working towards that end, towards the Kingdom, will last.

64   Keith    http://fivepts.blogspot.com
February 26th, 2008 at 9:50 pm

Starfish are people, too.

65   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 26th, 2008 at 9:53 pm

Ghandi rejected Christ.

No he stated:

“I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.”

So it looks like to me he did not reject Jesus, but “Christians”…

iggy

66   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:01 pm

Early in Gandhi’s schooling in England, friends tried desperately to convert him to Christianity from being a Hindu. The deciding factor for a young Gandhi was the bible’s words about man having dominion over animals (hindu’s are vegan). THis was not tolerable to Gandhi, but he did form his movement later called Satyagraha after the Sermon on the Mount.

When ask about his religion, Gandhi stated, “I am a Hindu, a Muslim, a Christian, I don’t care what you call him, I only seek to see the face of God”

67   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:20 pm

Ghandi may have liberated people from the British, and yet there are millions, billions?, still trapped in a caste system in India. OK. He was successful. You win. But seriously, Ghandi, in my judgment, didn’t do much for the world. He may have left behind a personal legacy, but he did not leave behind hope for anyone. A man’s life is not the sum of his remembered aphorisms. (I haven’t figured out King yet.)

Mandy, I appreciate your sadness. I’m probably just feeling a bit sorry for myself. (I got my alumni mag the other day.) It mostly comes from the fact that I see those kids I mentioned above every day and for the most part I can only weep. I want to think that simply ‘being near them’ each day is significant, but I just don’t know.

I’m sorry if I am sounding down and out. Some of us are on earth to carry such burdens. I’d like to think that my days amount to a little more than ‘how many people hit my blog today to see what I said about Project Runway last night.’ Maybe they are and I just don’t see it.

I’m glad that I can weep here a little bit. It’s all those kids (close to 800 a day) that break my heart. I want to bring them home, not because I’m perfect or have it all together, but so that I could know they are safe for a least a night. That’s all.

I’ll not take up any more space here with this subject. I’ll appreciate any of you who wish to join me in weeping tonight for the small ones who don’t have a chance.

jerry

68   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 26th, 2008 at 10:26 pm

Joe,

One more thought. You wrote: “When ask about his religion, Gandhi stated, “I am a Hindu, a Muslim, a Christian, I don’t care what you call him, I only seek to see the face of God”

That was exactly Ghandi’s problem. Period.

jerry

69   Evan Hurst    
February 26th, 2008 at 11:12 pm

and that’s the problem: when we can summarily dismiss the good someone has done or is doing for the world because they’re not “saved.”

seems little bit shallow to me. or is Creation just a game?

70   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 26th, 2008 at 11:18 pm

He may have left behind a personal legacy, but he did not leave behind hope for anyone. A man’s life is not the sum of his remembered aphorisms. (I haven’t figured out King yet.)

He left hope for me, and I am someone!

71   Evan Hurst    
February 26th, 2008 at 11:24 pm

When I say it is a semantic difference I mean this. I am not interested in changing the world. I am interested in glorifiying God (1 Peter 2:1-5, 9-10). God will certainly use some people to change the world, but not most or many. Then again, ‘impact’ is a cheap word isn’t it?

i think we’re all supposed to work to change our corner of the world. whatever’s within reach. some of us just a longer reach than others.

and to address one picky point:

What does it mean when 6th and 7th graders already ‘know’ they are homosexuals? Seriously? What the hell does that mean?

it means they hit puberty.

LOOK!

i finally figured out how to use quote buttons.

72   Brian    
February 26th, 2008 at 11:37 pm

It is interesting to me these pet sins. Jerry says Ghandi’s problem is that he refused a title and only soughy God. Ingrid hates gay people and God tells us He hates divorce. Isn’t Ingrid divorced? Makes me wonder why she doesn’t want to outlaw that. Why not March against that?

73   Jerry Hillyer    http://www.dangoldfinch.wordpress.com
February 27th, 2008 at 12:14 am

Brian,

No, I said Ghandi’s problem is that he couldn’t make a decision as to what he believed. I said nothing about a title he may or may not have refused. (Although, when Paul persecuted the church he persecuted Christ (Acts 9). So, if Ghandi rejected the Church (Christians), was he also rejecting Christ?) His problem is that he had no allegiance to anyone.

Ghandi’s problem was that he wanted the best of each without committing to any ONE in particular. Ghandi’s greatness is rather meaningless to those people he left trapped in the caste system, worshiping Shiva and not enjoying the satisfying and nutritious virtues of a cheeseburger. He was a typical Hindu, nothing more.

These are not ‘pet sins’ of mine. I’m not sure what that means. And I’m not sure how what I said morphed into a statement about the author of Slice. I don’t see the logical connection since I’m not talking about a pet sin. Furthermore, I’m not marching for anything or anyone anytime at any place. I am planning a march against marches though. (PS, I hate parades too, because they are just marches in disguise. Although, I might be inclined to march in a ’straight pride’ parade if someone organized it or a ‘married man who works for a living and pays too much in taxes and drives a lousy minivan instead of a cool sportscar’ march. Nah.)

Evan, PS, one picky point. I didn’t summarily dismiss Ghandi’s good deeds. I just said that it wasn’t very much considering he did nothing about the caste system that keeps millions or billions of Indians locked in perpetual poverty and hopelessness. (But being free from the British: that is something to brag about!) To be sure, I said nothing about Ghandi’s saved or unsaved status. Nor did I discredit the relative ‘good’ he did. I simply said it wasn’t much considering all things. I’m sure he was a great man to someone, but I cannot begin to imagine how he brought hope to Joe as if Joe has too been rescued by Ghandi from the British. Indians are still slaves, it’s just not to the British.

And, for the record, I consider rejecting Christ a fairly significant aspect of a person’s life. (I think God might consider that a fairly significant aspect too, but I realize that some might take that the wrong way so I won’t say it.)

OK. I really don’t want to fight and argue. I just wanted to share some of my angst. No hard feelings fellas. I thought perhaps this was a place where I could get some sympathy, but only Mandy shared my pain and helped shoulder my burden. I’m feeling better now, though, because I remembered it was Johnny Cash’ birthday and I posted some youtube videos at my blog. I’ll see ya’ll around.

your friend in Jesus,
jerry

74   Evan Hurst    
February 27th, 2008 at 12:36 am

who says sincerely seeking God requires making a definitive decision?

some of us feel that that’s putting God in a box.

and i understand that we in the US might have a different perspective on this, but i think the phrase “rejecting Christ” is a little bit harsh when you’re talking about someone from a culture that’s predominantly of a different faith.

look. consider how you’d feel if some Muslim missionary knocked on your door and started witnessing to you about their faith, in this country where 78% identify as Christian.

75   Evan Hurst    
February 27th, 2008 at 12:40 am

for the record, Johnny Cash rules.

i like to point out things people have in common.

;)

76   merry    
February 27th, 2008 at 12:40 am

Joe B,

“Millions of people in the world have never heard of Christ and their lives are just as beautiful and amazing as could be.”

That may be true, but life is very short, no matter how beautiful and amazing. But what will happen to them after they die? Seriously, have you ever thought about what will happen to you, to your soul, after you die? It’s a hard question, but it’s an important one. All of us only have a few decades to live.

“There are billions and billion of galaxies in the Universe . . . The world isn’t the fallen world you see, it is an amazing place of endless wonders.”

God is an amazing God; when we look around us at the world, and at pictures of space, etc, how can we not believe in God? I really think it takes more faith to believe that there isn’t a God. And He has said that this earth will pass away, and He will make a new one, a perfect one–why would anyone want to settle for this broken one, with it’s broken, hurting people? I may view the world in a dark way, but it’s the hope I have in Christ that allows me to see light. I wish for every broken, hurting person to have the same hope as well.

77   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 12:51 am

“Millions of people in the world have never heard of Christ and their lives are just as beautiful and amazing as could be.”

Which is why the message of Christ was eternal life, and somehow the western church has made it into this life. The parable of the rich man who had it all but then died and found out he had nothing is telling. Jesus said, “what should it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul?”.

The parable of the goats and the sheep who are divided after Jesus comes. The kingdom of Gid is like a merchant man seeking goodly pearls, who when he has found one pearl of great price sells all that he has and buys it. This life is but a vapor, here today and gone tomorrow, but he who has everlasting life has great wealth.

78   nathan    http://www.nathanneighbour.com
February 27th, 2008 at 1:03 am

If you can lead someone to Christ, you help change on person forever. And, if you can do it with one, you can do it with many. And, if there are many lives being changed all over the world, you are literally changing the face of humanity. I am not too sure how you can argue with that.

79   Joe Martino    http://joemartino.name
February 27th, 2008 at 8:22 am

While I confess I do not see the connection between Jerry and Ingrid, Brian’s point about her is more than valid, no?

80   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 9:27 am

Joe – the difference is that the gay community wants to make their lifestyle as “God given” and some are aggressive and organized. The divorce population is not organized and usually doesn’t suggest legislation about it.

But, as you and I have contended, it is not up to the church to take a stand against sin in the secular community, God has already made it clear that Christ came not to condemn because we all were already condemned. I do not understand that in the “total depravity” camp that are adamant about lost people being absolutely dead in their sins.

How do you comdemn people who are dead in their sins for behaving in a way consistent with the theology some espouse? I mean the irony and doctrinal schizophrenia about the lost is striking. How do you hold a dead man’s feet to the fire concerning his sin? And is it just me or do some believer’s use their presentation of the gospel to these people as a scapegoat for their condemnation so that no one can accuse them of not sharing the gospel? It’s like they cover their tracks but their words of condemnation carry much more zeal than their words of redemption.

If I was gay and I heard a Christian say God’s wrath is upon me because I was gay and that America should treat me differently than others, I would have a hard time listening to anything about their Jesus. But that’s just me.

The entire mess begins with an unscriptural meshing of the church with America and believing that this nation was birthed upon “sacred foundations” (Ingrid). This nation killed thousands of people because we refused to pay English taxes. Please, someone show me in the New Testament where that would even come close to being God’s will. But let us not condemn the early patriots because they were only doing what people do in this world, but please do not suggest that God was so against people paying taxes and so “American” that He led those same patriots to violently overthrow their government.

Even if England had forbidden the exercise of worship, and even if England had outlawed Christianity, and even had they doubled all the taxes, the church still could not claim that the Heavenly Father desired the church to commit violence against that same government. It goes against every teaching in the New Testament but because we were endoctrinated nationalistically at an early age, even in Christian schools, we cannot see that distinction.

81   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 9:40 am

Rick,

“Joe – the difference is that the gay community wants to make their lifestyle as “God given” and some are aggressive and organized. The divorce population is not organized and usually doesn’t suggest legislation about it.”

That is becuase it was already organized by law… from before the time of Moses but allowed by God, becuase the hardness of man’s heart.

Yet, divorce has become easier to get and more accepted only in the last 20 years. Before that there was still a lot of shame around it and the Catholic Church would still excommunicate members over it as in the case of my wife’s parents.

It is a real issue and more subversive than the “gay” rally and as far as the destruction I ahve seen more harmful…

That is why God “hates” divorce… it is a sin and should be still seen as one.

Now, do we shame people and all that. No, but I think that there need be more teaching on how to be man and wife… and how we need love as Christ loves… and submit as Christ submitted.

iggy

82   Tim Reed, Owosso MI    http://churchvoices.com
February 27th, 2008 at 9:43 am

You amaze me sometimes Rick, this time in a good way. ;) .

Although I will say changes in law to allow divorce more easily could be easily compared to the current push for changes in marriage law. The only difference is they passed easily and without comment from the church.

83   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 3:03 pm

I wonder if one of you would be willling to answer the question I proposed before but got no answer.

A large majority, myself incuded, have no attraction to the opposite sex and never have. SOme have even spent tens of thousands of dollars attempting to change their sexaulity. How does it change your opinions or beliefs to know that people are born gay, perhaps not genetic, but innate. Is it now a bit cruel to force such people to live companion free lives?

You all seem to be working on the assumption people choose to be gay and can just choose to not be gay. It doens’t work that way.

84   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 3:14 pm

Let me make an observation here that will bring into greater focus what is happening here. At one time the Roman Catholic Church became the government as well as the church. And it used military might to defend and to conquer. So those who wish to hitch their eccesiastical wagons to the American government are in essence mirroring what the Roman Church once did.

They are constructing a Protestant version of the Roman Catholic Church when they beg/manipulate/petition/ the secular government to act on the church’s behalf, as well as when they claim that America was a Christian nation as was Rome a Catholic nation. We are the body of the Lord Jesus Christ, living and breathing and with reconciliation as our divine ministry.

Remove your eyes off Washington and set Christ ever before you. Fret not about what men may do and trust only the Lord your God. He never sleeps nor slumbers and gives power to the weak.

Some will trust in chariots and some will trust in horses and some will trust in laws, but we will trust in the Name of the Lord our God. His wings bring healing and His voice redemption. His offer is forgivenss and His power is grace. His warnings are strong but His mercy is everlasting. His dwellingplace is on the Father’s right hand and His commission is good news. His sacrifice was the cross and His victory was the resurrection. His death is our life and our death is His life.

He meets in sacred prayer closets not in congressional chambers. And as He sees all the wickedness and sin, the rebellion and perversion, the fallen lostness of Adam’s race who raise their hand against their very Creator, as He sees all of this He says………….Come….. unto Me…..all ye that labor……and are heavy laden……and I will give you rest.

Halleluiah, what a Savior!!

85   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 3:22 pm

Joe – many of us do not feel as you described. Although we cannot subscribe to that lifestyle as approved of God, we also know some are born with that inclination. We do not suggest anything to you, except Christ. We do not judge you but offer love and the reconciliation of your Creator.

Those who would foist upon you a structured morality apart from Christ are indeed misguided. I see you as a person, your particular sins are within the parameters of all of ours as well. When I was rabidly promiscuous, addicted to drugs, selling drugs in high schools, drunken, violent, and a blasphemer, God did not require any reduction of my sins before I came to Christ.

His work in me became a process and sometimes a major project. The work continues way behind schedule.

86   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 3:42 pm

Rick, sorry, but perhaps you misunderstood what I said. Do you think it is cruel to expect people to give up companionship and/or loving relationships if they are gay? I am interested in you thought and feelings. I am not looking for scripture or dogma. I want your feelings and thoughts about how we should treat people who are gay.

87   Phil Miller    http://veritasfellowship.blogspot.com
February 27th, 2008 at 3:48 pm

Joe,
I totally do sympathize with what you’re saying. I think that in many ways, the church has created an environment that tells gay people they either have to live in isolation and secrecy, or they can leave the church altogether and be themselves.

I do think the Bible forbids same-sex physical relationships, and I do think that some people are born with such desires, so it does create a sort of tension. I don’t know why it is the way it is, but in some things I just have to take that answer. Paul says that he thinks that some people are better off not getting married. I realize it rings somewhat empty coming from a married guy.

Also, I think to some extent, the church has come to idolize marriage. Yes, marriage is a good thing – it’s necessary. But I think we have told people that to live a good Christian life, you must be married. How many pastors are single? Not many, that’s for sure. If they are, everyone thinks there’s something wrong with them.

So I would say that the church needs to have an answer to your question. The church needs to be a place where people can form true friendships, and where true companionship can be found.

88   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 4:05 pm

Joe,

Please take this as not meaning to offend…

Sin comes in many forms. Many people are predisposed toward different sins in the form of addictions. Be that the Native American towards alcoholism and people towards drugs and even sex be it porn, fornication or homosexuality.

Man was made to be dependant. So, if one does not have God to be dependant on (and even when one does at times) we will tend toward “something” to replace God.

This can be anything… and even “good” things… but these things cannot in and of themselves change us.

I see sex like a drug or alcohol. There are some good things about drugs in the form of medicines and some good things about alcohol, but abused and/or misused can become very bad soon.

Now, i am as hard with my opinion on homosexuality as i am with heterosexuality when someone commits adultery or fornicates or abuses a spouse… there are many things that can make a marriage not a marriage… so just being hetero and married does not (at least to me) mean it is “good” or “right” or “God ordained” even.

But, as I stated, anything that is used to replace God, be that even a hetero or gay relationship… is wrong.

Saying all that, God wants what is best for us… to give us what is beyond our own ability to get. He has a perfect will and wants us to live according to His plan.

This is not some pie in the sky everything will be cotton candy plan, it might even be harder than whatever you are into now… but the core of it all will be, Christ in you, your only hope of Glory.

Without Christ Jesus there is no hope for anything. With Christ this is always hope.

I pray that you see this as not an attack against gays… as I see that to leave anyone in sin is a sin in and of itself. I only hope to encourage you to consider Jesus and His way if you have not already.

Atheism is not about “not believing in God” but in that one does not see proof… yet I challenge you to earnestly seek God and He will reveal Himself to you.

We all struggle with different sins.. but Jesus has taken away our sins and has given His Spirit to us to live His Life and to have Him Live His Life in and through us.

Be blessed,
iggy

89   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 4:21 pm

Iggy, that sounds like a lovely sermon, but you didn’t answer the question. If I did hear anything, it would be that you seem to believe homosexuality is like drugs or porn. I can gather from those analogies that you believe gays and lesbians should remain alone if they have no opposite sex attractions. Do I have that correct?

Phil, Thank you for your answer. It felt warmed by reading it. I appreciated your honesty and directness.

90   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 4:28 pm

Ps. to Iggy…Atheism is about not believing in god, plain and simple. For some it could be lack of proof for other it could be something else. Either way, I do not believe in god. If I didn’t maybe begin to believe in some probability that god exists, I would be hard pressed to believe in a personal god that is involved in day to day of all the creatures on all of the planets in all of the galaxies,etc…then to go past that, I would really have a hard time believing that any of the known life forms so far have found any remote evidence that their god is the right god. Beyond that, narrowing it down even further which has taken decades for me to do….I am 100% sure that if there is a god, it is not the Abrahamic God commonly known to Jews, Christians and Muslims. I am 100% sure it is not any of the many hindu gods, and I am 100% it is not John Frum.

While I respect others beliefs, I am deeply saddened at the result of those beliefs in the world today.

91   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 4:36 pm

“I am not looking for scripture or dogma.”

That is all I have, Joe. But it suggests we treat gays as we treat everyone. No different.

92   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 4:40 pm

Joe,

Atheism as defined is because there is not enough scientific proof to know whether a “god” exists then one chooses to not believe… that is the definition I get when I am debating in Atheist sites. There are different types of atheism as there is weak and strong… so i am not sure which you are, but most just say that since they do not see any evidence they do not believe, but then say that if evidence is given they would believe… (though I have found that not such the case)
It is not that one does not believe in a “god” but that one does not see enough evidence to believe in a “god”.

Agnosticism is seeing that there is no proof whether a god exists so since it cannot be proven, believes that no god exists.

Now, the answer to your question is that yes, I see homosexuality just as i see all sin.

Forgiven.

How do you know that what is best for you is to abstain or not? Or, what if given the renewing of the mind as the bible teaches you find that your are attracted to the opposite sex after all? I am not garenteeing it… but I have seen it… in fact I ahve seen some come out of the gay lifestyle and be totally free and love their new life in Christ as a heterosexual after years and years of being in the gay lifestyle.

So, again, to answer your question… yes I see all sin the same way…

Forgiven and replaced with the opportunity for a new life in Christ Jesus that is more abundant and healthy… as long as one seeks God’s best.

Blessings,
iggy

93   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 5:45 pm

Thank you Iggy, that was the honest direct answer I was looking for….I only needed clarity of the groups thoughts, views and beliefs. I disagree with your beliefs, but I couldn’t agree or disagree without understanding your beliefs. Thank you for providing the clarity.

As for the Atheist stuff, I might agree with you. I don’t believe in god because so far I have found no evidence the hints to the existence of god. Along with that, I tend to side with those who hold the view that some of the current religious beliefs are fairy tales and myth. Some, I hold stronger opposition to than others, like any of the faiths that refuse medical treatments and such, and most certainly any that claim the earth is only 10,000 years old.

94   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 5:46 pm

and most certainly any that claim the earth is only 10,000 years old.

Actually 10,265 years old.

=)

95   Evan Hurst    
February 27th, 2008 at 7:24 pm

i would suggest that agnosticism is something quite different…

most agnostics i know (and i am one) don’t disbelieve in God…

the late great Norman Mailer said something to the effect of “If we base our beliefs on the mere fact of our existence, then it’s not a stretch to believe in a God of some sort…”

that’s not the exact quote, but it kind of sums it up.

i, as an agnostic, sense that there’s far more out there than we’ll ever understand, but i don’t claim any firsthand knowledge of exactly what it is.

and my hunch, and this is just a personal thing, is that none of us will ever get it exactly right as far as belief structures, etc, while on this earth.

96   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 7:54 pm

Actually as I have posted before it is both 15 million years old and 5759 years old…

= )

iggy

97   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 8:05 pm

Well, I think my time has come to leave here. I might keep reading but you guys seem to be moving on to other topics and any impact my 2 cents may have had on your thoughts about gay people have been made.

I thank you for your hospitality, and your warm thoughts (and even the prayers that I don’t really believe in but love the warmth behind the thoughts).

Either way, you are all welcome to keep in touch with me via my site or my email…..also on my site.

Smiles!
Joe

98   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 8:29 pm

Joe,

For what its worth… don’t let sexual identity be they reason you choose not to pursue God. And most definitely do not other “Christians” behavior persuade you not to look into the claims of Jesus.

Just for some fun since you are into science and “proof” Josh McDowel has a few books called “Evidence demand a verdict” that might give some answer…

Also, I just ask to be open… listen also with your heart not just your head.

Be blessed,
iggy

99   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 8:49 pm

Good bye – Joe.

We’ve enjoyed your company. Stop in once in a while, even if for some humor!

Rick

100   Joe Brummer    http://www.joebrummer.com
February 27th, 2008 at 8:49 pm

For what its worth… don’t let sexual identity be they reason you choose not to pursue God.

I covered this already Iggy. Please do not think I am so shallow in my thinking that my sexual identity would influence my thoughts on a creator of the entire universe. Such an assertion is very insulting.

101   Henry (Rick) Frueh    http://judahslion.blogspot.com/
February 27th, 2008 at 9:32 pm

So long, Aquarius, and we thank you…

102   iggy    http://wordofmouthministries.blogspot.com/
February 28th, 2008 at 12:17 am

Joe,

Again I was not meaning to be insulting… nor put you down in any way… just hoped to give you some things to thing about…

Again, I know some who come from exactly where you are… and come to faith and saw a wholeness they never thought they even needed or conceived.

Be blessed,
iggy

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