Let’s Talk About Sex
I wonder what specific marital issues Luther had to deal with that it took up so much of his time?
I recommend reading the whole page (shouldn’t take long).
Maybe if we were willing to talk, teach, and preach about these issues (i.e. sex) that so impact the people of God and our world both for married couples and individuals, we wouldn’t see so many people waiting until the pain and embarrassment of the problem is greater than the pain and embarrassment of seeking help.
*Update: I found this from “Pastor: the Theology and Practice of Ordained Ministry” by William H. Willimon and thought it apt.
“Christianity tends to see most things that the world regards as private, as intensely public. For us, sex is not a private matter. Sex is a public responsibility, intertwined with politics, something to be engaged in for the common good, not merely for individual satisfaction. We do not believe in sex apart from the public promises and social commitments that make sex inteeresting. Let us not forget how curious it is for the church to take an act so carnal as coitus and insist that before a couple become ‘one flesh,’ they have a wedding in order to talk about it in front of God and the whole church.
For example, in the middle of advice concerning congregational squabbles in the first church of Corinth, Paul wades into the intimacies of marriage. ‘For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does’ (1 Cor. 7:4) is just the sort of thing one would expect from a first-century male. Then Paul adds, ‘likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does,’ something we would not expect to hear. Then Paul gets quite specific about what husbands and wives ought to expect from one another for sex in marriage, no matter that this epistle will be read in front of the whole church.” (p. 107, emphasis mine.)
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